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Kundalini Unleashed: Yoga, Healing, and Nervous System Mastery (Creative Status: Episode 101: Laura Goellner)

Creative Status is a podcast about using creativity as a vehicle for improving your life by deconstructing ego, integrating the shadow self, and designing and manifesting a real life through the power of TRUST.

Every episode explores how the creative process can help you GROW REAL by moving towards wholeness in yourself by making the unconscious conscious.

In this episode, we dive deep into the transformative power of Kundalini yoga with Laura Goellner from LauraGyoga.com. We explore the practical aspects of Kundalini, how it can aid in nervous system regulation, and its role in personal healing and development.

Understanding Kundalini Yoga: Laura shares her journey into Kundalini yoga, highlighting its unique ability to transform heavy, stuck energy into something powerful and usable. She explains how Kundalini differs from other forms of yoga by combining powerful movements with stillness and awareness, offering a holistic approach to healing.

Yoga Therapy and Nervous System Regulation: Laura discusses her work as a yoga therapist, focusing on individualised practices that address each person’s unique needs. She emphasises the importance of breathwork and meditation in managing the nervous system, helping individuals move from a state of sympathetic dominance to a balanced, relaxed state.

The Practicality of Kundalini: We delve into the practical aspects of Kundalini yoga, debunking the myths and romanticised views often associated with it. Laura explains how Kundalini can be a practical tool for everyday life, helping individuals process big emotions and find a sense of calm and clarity.

Creative Status: Kundalini Rising

Join us in this episode as we explore the depths of Kundalini yoga and its practical applications for personal growth and healing. This conversation is a must-listen for anyone interested in using yoga as a tool for navigating life’s challenges and moving towards a more balanced and authentic existence.

Stay real out there,

Oli

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Kundalini Unleashed (Show Transcript)

Intro

Oli Anderson: Oh, hi there. Oli Anderson here. You’re listening to Creative Status. This is a podcast where we talk about being a real human being—tapping into our realness by finding a connection to wholeness by any means necessary. That sounds dramatic, and it is.

Today’s episode is an interview episode with Laura G from LauraGyoga.com. We’re talking about all kinds of my favorite topics: Kundalini, yoga, nervous system regulation, healing, and what we can do to put ourselves back on the path we belong on.

I’m not going to say too much more, but this is an awesome interview. Laura, thank you so much for your time, your knowledge, and your wisdom about all this stuff.

And to everyone else, I hope this helps you go out there and live that real life. Here we go. Thanks a bunch. Boom.

Interview

Oli Anderson: Oh, hi there, Laura. Thank you so much for joining me on today’s episode of Creative Status. I discovered you and your work when I was looking on Udemy for interesting things to learn about. I typed in “Kundalini,” and I found a course that you’d made. It was amazing, so I thought I’d reach out to you.

Ultimately, we kind of got to talk about modern Kundalini, some of the misconceptions people have, and what we can learn from Kundalini in relation to our own healing and all that kind of stuff.

But before we get into it, would you like to introduce yourself, tell people what you’re all about, how you got into Kundalini in the first place, and also what you want to get out of this conversation that we’re about to have?

Laura Goellner: eah, sure. Thanks so much for having me and for sharing information about what Kundalini is. That’s a big part of my mission right now—to basically share the practices of yoga in a way that supports people’s healing and personal development. That’s kind of the cornerstone of what we think of as yoga therapy.

So, I’m a yoga teacher, but I’m also a yoga therapist. That means I work with all the different tools and techniques of yoga to really support people wherever they are in their healing process or personal development journey. Over the years of practicing all sorts of different types of yoga, Kundalini has been one that stood out because it is so powerful at creating an experience of transformation.

We think of it as taking a certain type of energy that might be there—a heaviness or a stuckness—and transforming that into something powerful and usable, so you can start to move in the direction you’re really working toward in your life. That’s what really drew me into Kundalini. I had a very personal experience with it in terms of my own healing and development, and it continues to be a big part of my life today.

It’s so important to me to be able to share that with people in a way that feels like it just becomes a part of your day-to-day life—a tool you can use to feel really engaged with what’s happening all around you.

Oli Anderson: So, when you say that you do yoga therapy as well, what other kinds of tools and techniques do you bring into the equation? Just to get a kind of overview of what it is you do.

Because, obviously, a lot of people think that yoga is just about the poses or the asana, but in the Yoga Sutras, there are only three sutras that refer to asana. So, do you use the philosophy as well, or what else are you talking about?

Laura G: Yes, it’s a very individual process. In the West, we’re quite used to seeing yoga shared in a group context—usually a big class. And I think for most Western yoga teachers, the bigger the class, the better. But with yoga therapy, we move in the opposite direction. It’s either a very small group or, more often, one-on-one, so we can completely focus on the needs of the individual.

It’s about getting to know where they’re at, what they’re struggling with, and what they’re moving toward. My role in that process is to say, “Okay, here are the practices of yoga, here are the philosophies and frameworks we have in yoga that can support you exactly where you are,” and to facilitate that healing process. Yoga is so good at that—any time we interact with it, it tends to touch a piece of that healing process within us.

It’s really a holistic process. It can involve postures, but I tend to lean quite a bit into breathwork and meditation because they interact so strongly with the nervous system. That’s the focal point of a lot of the work I’ve done—helping people manage their nervous system, which I find so helpful in the healing process, giving them those tools.

But it is a very individual experience. Every person who comes to yoga therapy will have a session that looks a little bit different because it’s so important that it’s tailored to them.

Oli Anderson: That’s awesome, because everybody’s healing journey is different, obviously, even though it’s all kind of leading back to the same place. I think that place is just wholeness, connection, and all that kind of stuff. I love how you mentioned breathwork and meditation. For me, in all the work I do these days, I think the “holy trinity,” so to speak, is yoga asana, meditation, and pranayama. All of those things together are just so powerful, and it does come down to the nervous system, which I think we’re going to get into in a minute. So, thank you for sharing that.

Before we get into the deeper stuff, if you don’t mind, could you explain exactly how you define Kundalini? One of the reasons I like your work so much is that you’ve made it very practical and down to earth, which kind of goes against the grain of a lot of the stuff out there on Kundalini. There’s often a romanticized idea that there’s a coiled snake at the bottom of the spine, and then it shoots up your chakras, releasing all these different rainbow colors, and then you get superpowers and all your problems are solved—you can walk on water and everything.

Is there some truth in that? Or, how do you define Kundalini?

Laura G: Yeah, well, perhaps—I don’t know. I haven’t gotten to that point yet where I’ve had any rainbows come out of any interesting places. But who knows? There’s a whole lifetime of practice ahead of me, so I’ll let you know.

My personal approach to anything—whether it’s yoga, a vinyasa practice, yoga therapy, or Kundalini—is always to make it practical for the people who are interacting with it. We can focus on all these esoteric things and lofty goals like reaching enlightenment, but if we don’t have the tools to engage well in the relationships we’re in right now, navigate our work life, or handle very practical things on a daily basis, I feel like we’re missing such an important part of the healing process. It’s about feeling really engaged and connected with life as it’s unfolding.

My experience coming into Kundalini, after many years of practicing vinyasa—very flowy, breath-based practice where one pose flows into the next—was wonderful. It helped me feel more connected and aware of my body. But when I reached a point in my life where some really big struggles started to come up—a tremendously pressured job in healthcare and a very difficult, complex divorce—I felt like my vinyasa practice wasn’t helping me as much as it had been. The feelings I was going through were just so big, and I didn’t have a way to process them.

That’s when Kundalini started to step forward in my personal practice. I started doing movements that felt so strange. When you first start, you feel a little ridiculous—like, what am I doing? But there was a part of me that thought, “Let me try this. Maybe it’ll help.” That’s where I was at—I needed something, and I was willing to step completely out of my comfort zone to find it.

What I found in Kundalini were components that offered both incredible power and release. The movements were really strong and effortful—perfect for processing anger or repressed feelings. It gave me a way to move powerfully and work through those emotions. This was so helpful for me because, in the landscape of yoga, I think emotions like anger and sadness are often avoided or not talked about. But these emotions are such a human thing, and when we don’t have tools to process them, they build up inside us and can have detrimental effects. That strong, powerful component of Kundalini practice hit a point for me that wasn’t incorporated into my other practices.

And then, what makes this practice so amazing is that you can jump right from powerful, energy-based movement into stillness.

Oli Anderson: Wow.

Laura G: And you watch that transition—”Can I completely let that go? Can I drop all of that effort and just let myself sit here in a complete state of awareness? Whatever comes up, I’m just going to be here with it.”

To me, that connection of powerful movement and engagement of the body, balanced with stillness and deep awareness—my favorite way to describe Kundalini, the yoga of awareness—is what makes this practice so special. It’s also so helpful in a practical way for anyone on this human journey who has big feelings they just don’t know what to do with. It gives you some day-to-day tools that you can work with.

Oli Anderson: That sounds awesome. If I’m totally honest, I do yoga every day, but most of the yoga I do is power yoga, vinyasa yoga, or yin yoga. Based on what you’re saying, it actually aligns with what I’ve experienced. Vinyasa and yin have both really helped me dissolve a lot of my emotional stuff, but it’s been a very passive byproduct of going through those yoga flows.

If I understand you correctly, with Kundalini yoga, you already know that certain emotional stuff—sadness, anger, or whatever it is—is bubbling beneath the surface. And certain asanas within the Kundalini context allow you to actively bring those emotions to the surface, almost like you’re stirring the waters intentionally. Then, once it’s stirred up, you get into the stillness, and you can just face whatever comes up and allow it to do whatever it needs to do. Is that a fair way of saying it?

Laura G: Yeah, that’s the process that’s unfolding over and over in this practice. I always like to tell people that I love all the different forms of yoga—they all bring something different and can help us with different things at certain points in our lives, depending on what internal processes are going on. I think they all have an important role to play, and we get to choose: do I need a yin practice today? Do I need a vinyasa practice, or do I need a Kundalini practice to let those things bubble up to the surface?

In Kundalini, you’re actually going through the process of bringing emotions up with specific movements. For example, you might be powerfully moving your arms back and forth, like you’re punching. The teacher’s role is to guide you through the experience, saying, “Okay, lean into that experience of anger. Don’t move away from it. Let it come up, let it be there, let your body process it, and show it how to release.”

Then, you bring yourself into a place of soothing, settling, and coming back to a state of peace. You don’t feel overwhelmed or stuck in anger. It becomes a fluid process where things can evolve, and when they’re ready to let go, they know exactly where to release. That process can be so helpful for purposely bringing up things we tend to avoid because they’re difficult to manage. But once you have the tools and know how the process works, you become more confident, saying, “Okay, I’m not going to ignore my anger anymore. I’ll acknowledge it, let my awareness rest on it, and say, ‘I’m angry, and that’s part of being human.’ Let me process this, and here’s the roadmap of how to do it.”

Oli Anderson: Often, when people talk about Kundalini—like when I talk to other Kundalini instructors—they often refer to it as a technology. Is that linked to what we’re discussing now? Ultimately, is it a technology for managing this kind of emotional stuff that’s normally just hidden beneath the surface in the shadow self?

Laura G: Yeah, that’s a really common term used in Kundalini practices. I tend to refer to the components as tools or techniques, but I think it all gets at the same point: we have this set of practices. One particularly interesting thing about Kundalini is that it’s a very holistic practice.

In vinyasa, you might do an opening breath, flow through some poses, and finish with a breath, depending on the class. But it’s usually more segmented. In Kundalini, throughout the practice, you might be doing a posture, flowing, stopping in stillness to meditate, or jumping right into mantra. It’s all woven together, so you’re taking all the tools of yoga and integrating them into that practice.

That’s one of the really important things I like to highlight about the direction some modern yoga teachers are taking Kundalini. It’s a very choice-based practice, which gets at the core of any yoga, but I’ll specifically talk about it in terms of Kundalini. It’s about listening to your inner information—having a little mini conversation with yourself over and over: “How do I feel? What do I need?” Then, you listen for that information to bubble up and have the courage to act on what it tells you.

We go through that process repeatedly. In listening to yourself, you step into that place of choice. For example, do I want to continue this movement, or do I need to rest because my shoulder is getting sore? Do I need to do this very strong, powerful breath of fire, or maybe today I need to be a little softer with myself and choose to stay with a slower, deeper breath because that’s what I really feel like I need?

You have these tools, these choices, and all these different components that come together to craft a practice that is exactly what you need to support yourself on that particular day.

Oli Anderson: I suppose this is where the conversation shifts to the idea of awareness. In my coaching practice, I always start by raising as much awareness as possible. When people come to coaching or any kind of transformative intervention because they need to change their lives, it’s often because they’re not aware of the inner information you’re talking about: What do I really need? What am I avoiding? What am I running from? What should I be moving toward if I’m being real with myself?

When people resist these kinds of questions, it echoes Carl Jung’s famous saying, “What you resist persists.” The more we operate on autopilot—doing the things we’ve become accustomed to, which may not allow us to get the healing we need and deserve—the more our lives can slip through our fingers.

Practices like Kundalini yoga, or any intervention that raises awareness, cut through the hamster wheel thoughts and limiting beliefs we filter life through on a daily basis. They help put us back on the path we need to be walking at any given moment, moving toward wholeness and healing.

So, my question for you is: What kinds of things have you seen that we need to become aware of in order to start healing our lives through this process? Additionally, what are the effects on the nervous system when we’re not aware of these things? Is this why yoga, as a whole, is so powerful? Does it align our nervous system with our true path, or perhaps the path of least resistance in our lives?

Laura G: The connections between yoga and psychology are among the most fascinating aspects for me. When we engage in practices that foster awareness, we often start with postures, focusing on sensations in the body. For instance, can I be aware of the feeling of stretch in my leg? We allow awareness to soak into the body. As we practice longer, we can draw our attention to deeper layers and observe our thought processes and habitual thinking patterns that may be simmering beneath the surface, influencing our choices.

Over a lifetime of practice, we create spaces to settle and turn our awareness inward, asking ourselves, “What process is unfolding as I go through my practice?” A particularly unique element of Kundalini is the transition from effortful movement to complete stillness. We repeatedly observe our relationship with effort and rest. We push ourselves into challenges, moving into discomfort, and experience boredom or restlessness in our minds. Thoughts arise, like, “Why are we doing this? I’d rather be doing something else.”

This is a meditative process in motion: noticing those thoughts and patterns. For example, why do I get bored so easily? Why do I seek the next shiny, exciting thing? Here, we observe our relationship with effort. A common pattern many of us, including myself, have experienced is over-efforting—believing that harder work is always better. This can lead to injury, as I’ve learned from pushing too hard without listening to my inner guidance, feeling the need to keep up or perform at maximum capacity.

Recognizing that I don’t need to push to the point of strain leads to deeper questions: Why do I keep doing that? What lies underneath this pattern? Then, in moments of stillness, we can gently explore these questions, gaining insights into our self-worth and core beliefs.

Students often notice patterns quickly: some gravitate toward effortful movements, enjoying the dynamic parts of Kundalini, while others find stillness challenging. This highlights where resistance arises and reveals how these tendencies manifest in the rest of our lives. Am I avoiding discomfort that could foster growth? Am I overworking to the point of detriment?

Once we gain awareness of these patterns, a significant shift occurs. We start to recognize moments of overdoing it and can explore new, more supportive patterns. What is my inner voice telling me? Is it suggesting I need rest instead of pushing harder? This constant evolution unfolds moment by moment within our practice. It’s fascinating to watch the strengthening of inner awareness and shine light on the darker places where these powerful processes occur. Often, we don’t realize they’re there until we settle in and look for them. That’s what I find endlessly interesting about this practice.

Oli Anderson: Everything you shared is so powerful because those cycles of effort and release are constantly unfolding in all areas of life. Our relationship with these cycles profoundly affects the quality of our lives. I’ve seen it time and again—many people, myself included, fall into the trap of being “human doings” instead of “human beings.” We force ourselves against life, striving to reach goals, believing that achieving them—whether in business or relationships—will magically heal us and make us feel whole. But it doesn’t work that way.

We need to fine-tune our relationship between effort and release, balancing the yin and yang of life to express both healthily. When we achieve this balance, we can truly lean into life. We do everything within our control and power, but when it comes to things we can’t control, we can let go, surrender, and trust life to unfold as it should. I believe yoga is a testing ground for this way of living—a microcosm of the macrocosm of life itself.

If we can reach what I call the “zero point,” where yin and yang come together, we’ve managed to put in the necessary effort while also surrendering to the effortless nature of life. This means accepting the limitations of our bodies and understanding that we can’t force everything to fit a perfect mold. When we unify these two aspects, life becomes amazing. We stop forcing our bodies, minds, and nervous systems into unnecessary strain.

This brings us to the nervous system. Many people push themselves toward perfectionism, even in yoga poses, without acknowledging that we all have different skeletal structures. If we force ourselves due to misplaced ideas of perfection, often rooted in shame, we can end up in a state of sympathetic dominance, where everything feels like a threat.

The practices you discuss can help align our nervous systems with the natural flow of life. This alignment fosters a sense of trust in life, leading to a healthier relationship with it. When our parasympathetic nervous system functions well, we can remain calm in the eye of the storm, allowing life to swirl around us. We can trust that we’ll arrive where we need to be without exerting effort where it isn’t necessary.

I apologize for my rant, but I’d love to hear your thoughts on this, especially regarding the nervous system.

Laura G: Yeah, well, you know, this whole process, this play that, as you were saying, is really something that unfolds on our mat, but it is the bigger picture of our life with everything, with how do I play back and forth with effort and ease? How does my nervous system adapt to effort and ease? And, you know, there’s a lot of kind of misconceptions in yoga that we’re always supposed to be—supposed to be, you know, in quotes—calm and placid and just completely relaxed. And that’s actually not the way that the human nervous system is designed. We are made to be incredibly adaptable so that when there is danger, we have that energy that mobilizes to help us address that situation. And then as soon as that danger is gone and that challenge has been handled, we can slide right back into that parasympathetic rest and digest, taking care of yourself, creating connection.

So a truly healthy nervous system is fluid back and forth between those things all throughout the day. As some challenge arises, the sympathetic nervous system kicks in and goes, “Here’s some extra energy, here’s some extra glucose. Like, here’s all the things that you need to meet this challenge.” And then as soon as you’re done with that, you go right back into rest and digest. But what happens is we get so much practice being overstimulated, overworked, that most people in the modern world tend to get stuck in that fight or flight, that stress response in a way that becomes detrimental to our health. But it’s not necessarily to say that that’s always bad. It’s actually a very natural and healthy part of our nervous system. It’s only when we get stuck there that it becomes something detrimental.

So this practice that we do in Kundalini, of inviting in effort, of saying, okay, we’re not going to do everything, you know, always soft, always calm. We know that there is a range of experience within our nervous system, and being able to have that flexibility of adaptation whenever need arises, your nervous system is ready and able to meet that. That is a very healthy nervous system—just fluid back and forth between whatever the moment really calls for. So the practice of Kundalini comes and gives us a whole bunch of tools for what we call in the therapy world nervous system regulation of making that choice of, “Oh, well, I feel that I am stuck in that tension. Like whatever happened during the week is still clinging to me. I still feel that tension, that kind of upwelling of energy. And I really need to get ready to go to sleep or something like that.”

So the thing that people actually don’t realize about Kundalini sometimes is that there’s a wealth of really deep meditative practices. Outside of the fun jumping around and energy and all that, we also have this wealth of mantra and breath work and deep meditative practices that can also help your nervous system to calm and to settle. And one of my favorite components of that as we practice back and forth and support that nervous system flexibility. When you get really good at making that choice of do I want to use this breath or do I want to use that breath? Depending on what I need to feed to my nervous system, it becomes this really dynamic relationship of how you take care of yourself. A whole layer of self-care and personal empowerment. To say, I have all these tools. I have an awareness of how I feel right now and kind of what’s going on. And I know what I need to bring into my experience so that I can move into that place of feeling regulated, feeling supported. And within that process is strengthening that relationship to your inner information. Being able to know that from a deep place within yourself, and that such an empowering process that I think is really key to the modern practice of any yoga, but particularly in Kundalini, that strong connection to listening to your inner information.

Oli Anderson: Do you think when people have a dysregulated nervous system it’s ultimately just causing them to receive information that seems like the kind of inner information you’re talking about, but actually is. It’s not. It’s not a pure signal, so to speak. It’s been distorted or it’s a consequence of kind of resistance at some level. And it just ends up kind of exacerbating the kind of problems that are causing them to feel stuck or blocked or to feel like they needed some kind of emotional healing or release in the first place? And, if so, like, I suppose, how do we—how do we distinguish, I guess, distorted inner information from the real thing if that’s not too deep?

Laura G: Yeah, this is a very important process that I really like to work with people on. Anxiety and having a harsh inner critic are such common experiences in the modern world. Many people have patterns of self-talk and various loud sources of inner information telling them that they’re not enough, that they’re not doing enough, and that they need to fix things or become better. That voice can be really overwhelming for so many.

The process of going inward can sometimes feel scary because we don’t want that inner critic to get louder. We often hear people say, “Meditation? No, thank you! I don’t want to sit there and just listen to my inner critic. That sounds terrible.” But that’s not what we want to happen.

Interestingly, when we are chronically dysregulated and stuck in a stress response, the inner critic tends to get louder and stronger. It’s a product of trying to protect ourselves and putting up walls. The first step is to engage in practices that help us feel more centered and regulated, fostering that flexibility in our nervous system and leaning towards the calming, quieting end.

Think of the arc of a yoga practice: you warm up, reach a peak where you really mobilize your energy, and then slide down into calm and quiet. When you reach that quieter endpoint, if we’ve effectively regulated the nervous system through postures and breath, we often find a bit more inner clarity. The voice of the inner critic, or the anxious thoughts that might have been loud and front and center, can dim down. Even if it’s still there, we gain the perspective to understand that it’s not wisdom; it’s the voice of fear.

When it’s fear-based, it has a very different energetic feeling. We might recognize it as the ego—protective and fear-driven. You can then say to yourself, “Okay, let me settle down past that active, loud place of fear-based information and go deeper.” Picture a leaf gently falling from a tree and landing softly on the ground. If you settle into that process internally, you might find a calm, clear awareness that feels distinct from anything else. It’s often a soft whisper or a gentle feeling, but there’s a clarity to it that is unmatched.

Oli Anderson: Yeah. Wow.

Laura G: And I think, when I tell people that, they will immediately respond, “Oh, that sounds wonderful! I want to make that happen.” It’s like they want to snap their fingers and say, “Yes! How do I listen to my inner wisdom? Let’s make that happen.”

Oli Anderson: Yeah.

Laura G: And it’s important to realize that it’s a process. We practice a lot and do many things to get to that place where we can root down into that deeper layer and listen to it. That’s where all the tools of the practice come in to help us get there.

Oli Anderson: Yeah. Is this a classic case of getting where we want to be? In 90% of cases, let’s say, which is just a random number I pulled out of thin air. Getting where we want to be really involves unlearning rather than learning. I think what we’re talking about here is all these different levels of fragmentation that build up the ego. It’s just stuff that we’ve picked up, identified with, and gotten used to because of the way our nervous system has been interacting with life. It keeps us from what was already there all the time anyway, which is our true self. For me, that realness is something I’m obsessed with and end up talking about all the time. It’s the connection to wholeness or truth, whatever you want to call it. Most of the most effective healing work ultimately gives us tools to discern what’s real from what’s not. When we can do that, we get to the place you’re helping people reach, where all that distortion and noise fades because they know how to tune into the actual signal.

Laura G: Yeah, that’s the pattern I’ve seen too. Many people in the healing space, and in personal exploration, discover that it all boils down to connecting to the core of who you are at your center. That’s where this very clear information comes from—this experience of wholeness. As you mentioned the process of unlearning some of the lies we internalize as truths, one of the most important lessons we can take from meditation practice is that not everything our brain says is true. When you hear that critical thought or harsh self-judgment, you can recognize it and say, “Oh, okay, I see that thought, but it’s not true. It’s just a thought.” It can take time to unlearn the belief that if your brain said it, it must be true. But we can reach a place where we realize our brains generate all sorts of random thoughts that aren’t necessarily helpful or true.

The more you work with your practices—any form of introspection, yoga, meditation—the more you discover the path to that experience of wholeness. You don’t have to fix it, be perfect, or excel at asana. All your flaws and your realness come together to create the full experience of being you. This is reflected in many different spiritual practices. I think we’re pretty good at saying, “Okay, this is what we’re working on.” We have different paths to get there, but this is absolutely the core connection we’re aiming for.

Oli Anderson: Yeah. And I suppose just one final question about that: if you go back to the old yoga texts, like the Yoga Sutras, all that yoga philosophy written thousands of years ago is still applicable today. Human beings back then are fundamentally the same as we are now. The only things that have really changed are technology and the scenery of our lives. Maybe there’s more complexity because we have the Internet and all this kind of stuff, but what it means to be human remains fundamentally the same. Do you think a lot of modern interventions are trying to find something new for whatever reason? But really, we already have the information we need to embrace the human experience and make the most of it. Yet we keep looking for new technologies, interventions, or esoteric answers. Why do you think we feel the need to keep searching for something else?

Laura G: I guess, yeah. One of the interesting things about our nervous system, especially in terms of habit, is that it’s designed to find the easiest path. It’s a built-in process of energy savings. Our brain will always try to figure out the fastest, easiest way to make something happen. That’s the path it wants to take. Anyone who’s been on a healing journey knows that it’s usually the long and winding path that brings the most discovery—really digging deep and figuring things out. It’s not necessarily the easy path. But you have to give credit to our brain; it tries to find the quick answer. Wouldn’t it be nice if that were true? Eventually, we come to the realization that we have to sit with the difficult things and dig into them as we feel safe and capable. This ongoing process is part of our human experience.

As you mentioned, those deep core truths known thousands of years ago, put into texts, are still important and true today. Some external details have changed—like how much we sit, how our hips and posture have shifted, and the different inputs our nervous systems are exposed to now compared to back then. So, our starting point isn’t quite the same. We need a bit more prep work to regulate our nervous systems, reconnect with our bodies, and bring in some sense of awareness and connection. Then we can start to gain clarity toward those deeper layers.

When you have that moment of realization and connect to that inner space, knowing it’s there, it’s like you touch it and then get distracted. This is the dance, the process. Once you understand that this is the experience of your core, your center, knowing it’s there and that it supports you through every challenge is an incredible source of strength and connection. If yoga can give us even a glimpse of that, it’s worth all the time and effort we put into our practice.

Oli Anderson: That was awesome. What I’ve learned from this episode is that I’m just not going to trust my brain anymore! If you could sum everything up, what are your final words of wisdom? Also, can you let people know where they can learn more about you and your work?

Laura G: I think the broad picture, especially the way I want to share Kundalini and yoga with the world, is that this practice gives you tools to take amazing care of yourself. There’s no other practice I’ve encountered that offers such a diversity of tools for caring for your body, energy, and nervous system, helping you navigate the very real challenges of being human. We have this whole set of supportive processes we can lean into. Kundalini has specific strengths, like processing big emotions and connecting to stillness, which allows you to tap into your inner wisdom. Once you have that connection to your center, it serves as a constant guide through everything you navigate, always providing support.

Whether you can practice for two hours a day or just have 15 or even five minutes to do a couple of movements and breaths, it’s incredibly supportive for the various layers of human complexity we deal with.

Oli Anderson: Awesome. So, what’s your website? Is there a way for people to try some of your Kundalini flows?

Laura G: Yes! My website is Lauragyoga.com, and you can find me on Instagram @lauragyoga. On my website, lar gyoga.com, I have a bunch of resources. I just made an updated version of my free Kundalini 101 class, which is perfect if you’re new and curious about the practice. It gives you a nice overview of what Kundalini has to offer, so you can experience it for yourself.

Oli Anderson: Brilliant! Well, Laura, thank you so much for this. It’s been awesome. I appreciate your time. Like I said, I’m going to go get a lobotomy because I don’t trust my brain anymore! But thank you so much.

Laura G: Thank you, Oli. I really appreciate the time to talk about Kundalini and share this information.

Oli Anderson: Thank you.

Unlocking Sympathetic Dominance: The Path from Tension to Trust (Creative Status: Episode 100: Oli Anderson)

Creative Status is a podcast about using creativity as a vehicle for improving your life by deconstructing ego, integrating the shadow self, and designing and manifesting a real life through the power of TRUST.

Every episode explores how the creative process can help you GROW REAL by moving towards wholeness in yourself by making the unconscious conscious.

Every episode explores how the creative process can help you GROW REAL by moving towards wholeness in yourself by making the unconscious conscious.

In this episode, we delve into the concept of sympathetic dominance and its impact on our nervous system and overall well-being. We explore how an imbalanced nervous system can prevent us from achieving wholeness and trust in life.

Understanding Sympathetic Dominance: We begin with an overview of the nervous system, focusing on the sympathetic and parasympathetic branches. We discuss how sympathetic dominance—where the fight or flight response is overly active—can lead to chronic stress, anxiety, and various physical symptoms.

Three Main Sources of Tension: This episode breaks down three primary sources of tension that contribute to sympathetic dominance:

1. Physical Tension: Often caused by sedentary lifestyles and poor posture, physical tension can be alleviated through practices like foam rolling, yin yoga, and breathwork. Techniques such as 4-7-8 breathing and box breathing are highlighted as effective methods for releasing physical tension and regulating the nervous system.

2. Mental Tension: Rooted in our belief systems and the choices we make, mental tension arises from living out of alignment with the truth. By constantly questioning our assumptions and aligning our beliefs with reality, we can reduce mental stress and live more authentically.

3. Emotional Tension: Unresolved emotions like shame, guilt, and trauma contribute to emotional tension. Facing these emotions head-on and integrating the shadow self can help release this tension, leading to a more balanced and whole existence.

Creative Status: Sympathetic Dominance

Join me in this episode as we explore the sources of tension that lead to sympathetic dominance and how to address them. This episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking to regulate their nervous system and move towards a more relaxed, authentic, and real life.

Stay real out there,

Oli

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Unlocking Sympathetic Dominance: The Path from Tension to Trust (Transcript)

#100: Oli Anderson: Unlocking Realness: The Path from Tension to Trust

This is a podcast about being a real human being

Oh, hi there. Oli Anderson here. You’re listening to Creative Status. This is a podcast about being a real human being—about breaking down some of the building blocks of the human condition that are universal, common to us all. These are the things that can allow us to unblock ourselves at the level of our relationship with identity, the ego, so that we can ultimately move on the path towards wholeness: a deeper connection to ourselves, a deeper connection to other people, and a deeper connection to life.

Traditionally, this has been an interview podcast, and there are some more interviews in the pipeline. However, for the last five or six episodes—something like that—it’s been solo episodes, which is just me talking about various things. That’s because I totally burned out from doing interviews for a while. I was just doing them all the time, and I needed a break.

This podcast is about releasing unnecessary tension in our lives

That’s kind of related to the theme of this podcast episode because I want to talk about sympathetic dominance—getting into a state of being where our nervous system is out of regulation. Our parasympathetic nervous system isn’t doing what it needs to do because we’ve stressed ourselves out so much. We’ll be looking at how we can release some of the unnecessary tension we carry within ourselves so that we can regulate our nervous system and get back on the path to wholeness, realness, and truth.

Ultimately, a lot of what we talk about on this podcast—if you’re new here, welcome—is about the journey from fragmentation to wholeness. If your nervous system is out of regulation, you’re never going to be able to connect to wholeness as deeply as possible. Connecting to wholeness boils down to trust, and you can only trust if you’re relaxed. That means getting your nervous system into a regulated state so you’re breathing properly, not panicking, not seeing threats where there aren’t any, and allowing yourself to trust and flow with life.

It’s really important to understand the main sources of tension in our lives—this is what we’ll be talking about in this episode: what we can do about them and how we can move forward with more flow instead of force, more release instead of tension. But we also need to maintain a healthy level of stress and tension so we can keep growing through our edge, becoming the most real, true, and authentic version of ourselves.

So that’s what we’re going to talk about today. I almost said I wouldn’t make this a long episode, but I swore a solemn oath to myself in the last one that I’d never say that again—because sometimes I say it won’t be long, and then it ends up being a long one!

There are three main sources of tension in our lives that we can tackle

So, let’s get right into this. Ultimately, I’m going to give you three takeaways: there are three main sources of tension in our lives that we can do something about because they bring unnecessary friction into our experience. I’ll give you those in a minute, but first, let’s start with a quick discussion about the nervous system. We won’t get into too much detail about what sympathetic dominance is, how it shows up in people’s lives, and why it’s important to know this so you can start dealing with it.

If you haven’t heard, we all have a nervous system. It’s composed of various different streams, let’s say, that send signals to the brain, which affects how we perceive and interpret the world—and that impacts everything we do. There’s the central nervous system, which runs down the spine and sends signals to the brain. That’s the abridged version of that.

But then we also have the autonomic nervous system, which is an involuntary system that does all the work beneath the surface before we even start thinking about things. The autonomic nervous system is broken down into two streams, as I’m calling them. For some bizarre reason, we have the sympathetic nervous system, often called the fight-or-flight system, which prepares us for action by increasing heart rate, dilating the pupils, slowing digestion, and releasing hormones like adrenaline. Then we have the parasympathetic nervous system, known as the rest-and-digest system, which does the opposite. It’s the yin to the yang, if you want to use that language, of the sympathetic nervous system.

The parasympathetic system promotes relaxation, as “rest and digest” suggests. It reduces heart rate, aids digestion, facilitates recovery and healing, and helps us to breathe properly, among other things. Both parts of the nervous system are, of course, really important—but they also need to be balanced for us to have the optimal experience as human beings here on planet Earth.

Because there are so many external sources of stress in the modern world—and many more internal sources of stress, which we’ll get into because of our internal relationship with ourselves—so many people are running around on the verge of sympathetic dominance. That means the sympathetic nervous system is overly active compared to the parasympathetic stream. This causes all kinds of problems and unnecessary symptoms, like elevated heart rate and blood pressure, tense muscles, difficulty relaxing or sleeping, poor digestion, bloating, constipation, anxiety, irritability, and fatigue, despite being in a hyper-alert state.

All these symptoms are things that people often identify as just part of their personality or default experience, but really, it’s because their nervous system has gone haywire. If they could remove some of the unnecessary sources of stress and tension in their lives, they could balance themselves out. And when they do balance themselves out, it affects their personality because they stop filtering everything through the heightened state of stress that’s been distorting their view of the world.

As they relax, they’ll be able to trust life more, face themselves more, and just generally have a better experience. To be quite honest, and to keep this simple, the quality of our life is ultimately about how much we can slow down and relax. If we’re getting worked up and stuck on the hamster wheel of busy thoughts going round and round because the sympathetic nervous system is constantly seeing threats and pumping adrenaline into our system, we don’t have the best experience we can. More importantly, we don’t get the results we want from life because we’re never actually in life.

Something you might have heard me say before—if you’ve listened to previous podcasts or seen my other stuff—is that if you put something real in, you get something real out. If you put something unreal in, you get something unreal out. Jesus said it in a slightly different way: “A corrupt tree brings forth bad fruit,” or something like that. Ultimately, it’s just a way of saying that the things we put into our life—the input—affect the process we go through, which in turn affects the output.

If we’re in a state of sympathetic dominance, where we’re not really present in our lives but still trying to do things, we’re actually putting something unreal into our lives. So the results we get are unreal as well. It becomes a case of “unreal in, unreal out.”

If you want to live a real life—meaning you’re moving towards wholeness, constantly growing and evolving, living your values and true intentions, and experiencing all the amazing things the human experience can offer—then a very important foundation is to examine your relationship with your own nervous system. Understand how it’s affecting your view of yourself, other people, and life itself, so that you can regulate it if necessary. Remove the unnecessary tension and friction that cause you to see life unclearly, and then you’ll be able to move forward with trust, flow, and acceptance.

All the amazing virtues and qualities spoken about by the great spiritual traditions can only be accessed when your parasympathetic nervous system is regulated. If your parasympathetic system isn’t in balance, you can’t trust life. You can’t trust anything, because you’ll constantly be perceiving threats. Some of those threats may have been real once upon a time, but probably— and we’ll get into this in a second—you’re perceiving extra levels of threat because of your inner relationship with yourself and the way you’re interpreting things. This then spirals negatively because the adrenaline, cortisol, and other hormones being pumped into you—if you have sympathetic dominance—are just making things worse.

That’s why it’s important to work on this.

There are three different sources of tension that we carry for completely unnecessary reasons

Now, I’m going to give you three different sources of tension in our lives that you can start to deal with one by one. These will help you regulate your nervous system and be good for you in general, as they’ll carry you forward in a real, healthy, and true way. In every episode, I like to give three takeaways, and there are three kinds of tension we often carry for completely unnecessary reasons. When we do this, it adds unnecessary friction to our experience of life, and that friction constantly gives us feedback that something is wrong. If we can remove the tension, we can remove a lot of the unnecessary nonsense from our experience.

That’s why it’s so important to work on these areas. We’ll go through them one by one, but just so you know, the three areas are very simple: physical tension, mental tension, and emotional tension.

Physical tension is the muscular tension you carry in your body, as well as how you breathe. Then there’s mental tension, which is about your belief system and how it keeps you from the truth, makes you fragmented, or causes you to cling to an identity that isn’t real—this creates unnecessary friction. Finally, emotional tension consists of shame, guilt, trauma, and unresolved emotional stuff that we fear facing. This is because it may force us to let go of certain things we’ve attached to at the level of the ego, and it also brings up shadow aspects of ourselves—parts we’ve disowned or aren’t ready to face about who we really are.

When we carry tension at any of these levels—physical, mental, or emotional—we’re exacerbating the problem of sympathetic dominance. We’re keeping the nervous system in a heightened state of alertness, which makes us more stressed than necessary. The way to rid ourselves of this tension is to chip away at it, piece by piece, letting go of what we’re holding on to physically, mentally, and emotionally, so we can free ourselves and start flowing again.

All three levels are interconnected—the mind-body system is one system. These aren’t separate entities or parts of who we are, but we’ll look at them one by one to break it down. Just remember, it’s all interconnected.

Now, regarding physical tension—it’s pretty self-explanatory. So many of us live sedentary lifestyles. We’re in offices all day, hunched over computers, bending our necks to stare at our phones, endlessly scrolling through whatever we’re doing on there. Even if we do exercise, it might be just one kind of exercise. Maybe we go to the gym and lift weights, or we do cardio. Generally, we’re doing a lot of yang activities—where we’re very active and doing things—without balancing it with yin, which is about loosening up and doing nothing.

The nervous system reflects this dichotomy too. Yang corresponds to the sympathetic nervous system, and yin to the parasympathetic. This also explains why so many people suffer from sympathetic dominance, as our culture is very yang.

When you carry tension in your muscles, you might not even realise it’s there, because you’ve become so accustomed to it that it feels normal. But if you are in this state, carrying tension in your muscular system will affect your experience as you move through the world. It will make you more uptight than you would be if you were releasing that tension.

A few weeks ago, I was doing a yoga session with someone, and we got the foam roller out. This person was super flexible, or at least I thought so. They were very flexible, but once we started using the foam roller, they were rolling around in what looked like agony—maybe that’s a bit dramatic, but still. They were really feeling the tension hidden in their muscles, tension they hadn’t even realised was there. By the end of the session, after releasing that tension with the foam roller and some yin yoga, it was like she had completely dissolved. It was as if I was looking at a totally different version of her.

The lesson I took from that experience is that many of us are walking around with tension that’s been in our bodies for years, but we don’t even know it. This tension affects the way we relate to ourselves and the world, often at an unconscious level, though sometimes consciously—like when we notice we can’t bend over and touch our toes as easily as we used to, or when we just feel uptight for no obvious reason.

The point is, when we carry that kind of tension in our bodies, it affects how we go through life and how we do things. One way to start relaxing and tapping into the parasympathetic nervous system is to make a conscious decision to release some of that tension on a daily basis. It doesn’t have to be complicated. Maybe you start with some morning stretches, or you get the foam roller out. I have something called a rumble roller. I have no affiliation with the company that makes it, but it’s been in my life for years, and I love it. It’s a foam roller, but with nobbly bits on it, and it’s honestly one of the best things in my life. I love hopping on it and giving myself a shoulder massage or working on my calves—whatever part of me needs it.

We accumulate so much tension over time, and if you have a system for dealing with it, whether it’s daily or weekly, you can start releasing that tension, whether you’re aware of it or not. The lesson here is that as we go through life, we all accumulate tension, so we need to find ways to balance it out.

One of the best practical tools for releasing physical tension is a foam roller. Yin yoga is also incredible. In fact, I recently created a yin yoga flow, which I uploaded to YouTube. It’s a 75-minute deep, dissolving yin practice. If you follow that, I guarantee it will release some tension from your muscular system.

Another source of physical tension is our breathing. One thing you can do to release tension is to slow down your breathing and practice pranayama or breathing exercises. I always recommend 4-7-8 breathing. You inhale for 4 seconds, hold for 7 seconds, and exhale for 8 seconds. You can do cycles of that. Another technique is box breathing—inhale for 4, hold for 4, exhale for 4, hold for 4 again. It’s called box breathing because the pattern is the same all the way around, like a box.

Both of these breathing exercises help release physical tension because when you’re stressed out, your sympathetic nervous system floods your body with adrenaline, and your breathing becomes shallow and quick. Your breath, whether you realise it or not, affects your personality, just like physical tension in your body does. If you can learn to regulate your breathing and slow it down, you’ll release this tension.

So, that’s the first takeaway: we carry tension in our bodies, in both our muscles and our breath, but it doesn’t need to be there. There are things we can do about it, and when we start releasing that tension, it will affect the other levels—mental and emotional—too. So, let’s move on to those quickly.

Most mental tension comes down to the choices that we make

So, to keep it brief, most mental tension comes down to the choices we make. Specifically, the choice between being real or unreal. No surprise—I love talking about what’s real and what’s not. Being real means aligning ourselves with the truth, moving toward wholeness, and taking responsibility for our lives. Being unreal means having a belief system that doesn’t serve us. This could be because it’s limiting, or simply because we choose to believe something for emotional reasons. For example, someone might believe Prince Charming (or Princess Charming) will show up at their door one day because they have an underlying need for love, even though deep down, they know it’s not realistic.

When our beliefs and the choices we make about those beliefs take us away from reality, it creates friction, which causes stress. The reason is simple: the only way to achieve results in life is by aligning our beliefs with the truth. If our beliefs don’t match reality, things don’t work out, and this disconnect causes stress. So, mental tension often comes from holding onto beliefs that life keeps showing us are off the mark, which leads to anxiety.

In many cases, this mental tension stems from the image we carry of ourselves. That image is often a reaction to unresolved emotional stuff, which we’ll get to soon. But for now, the key takeaway is this: if you want to regulate your nervous system, you need to live in a way that seeks out the truth and aligns with it. This doesn’t mean you’ll always have the truth. We all have limited perceptions and interpretations. But if you continually examine your beliefs, question your assumptions, and ask yourself whether the limits you’re putting on yourself—or the image you hold of yourself—are really true, you’ll eventually dissolve what’s not true. You’ll align yourself more with the flow of life, and that’s when things will start to feel easier and less stressful.

The other part of this is accepting life on its own terms. A lot of the stress we feel comes from resisting universal truths that apply to all of us. Take, for example, the law of cause and effect. If we want something from life, getting it is the effect, but we need to be the cause to make it happen. If you’re starting a business, for instance, getting the business off the ground is the effect, but you have to work the process—the cause—to get to that point. It’s the same with any goal.

Another truth that people resist is the importance of prioritisation and organisation. Let’s use the example of washing dishes. There’s so many memes about how washing dishes feels like pushing a boulder uphill, because it never ends. People get stressed by little things like that, so they put it off. But when they do, the problem just builds up—now they don’t just have a few dishes to wash, they have a whole mountain. And this pattern happens in many areas of life. When you keep avoiding small tasks, they turn into much bigger problems, causing even more stress. If you face life head-on, dealing with things as they happen, they don’t get out of control and overwhelm you.

Ultimately, the point here is that we add unnecessary tension to our lives by avoiding the truth. If we shift our mindset to face the truth, constantly questioning our beliefs about ourselves and the world, and align our actions with what we discover, we’ll eliminate much of the friction that causes stress. We’ll be able to live more freely, without the weight of unreal beliefs holding us back from where we want to go.


All sources of tension are interconnected

The final takeaway is emotional stress, which ties into both mental and physical stress. As I mentioned earlier, everything is interconnected. If we have unresolved emotional stress, it gets stored in the body and causes tension. A great example is something yoga teachers often talk about: emotions, or trauma, being stored in certain parts of the body. Brian Kest, who was on the podcast ages ago, mentioned that a lot of trauma is stored in the hips. Whether that’s true or not, it makes sense because I’ve seen people cry in yoga sessions when they release tension from deep poses like frog pose.

When we carry emotional trauma, shame, or guilt, it affects our mentality because we tend to avoid those emotions. In response, we create a version of ourselves, an identity, that hides those emotions, which I often refer to as the ego. The unprocessed emotional baggage forms part of the “shadow self.” To truly heal and grow, we must face and integrate the shadow self, which is why the tagline for this podcast is “Deconstruct the ego, integrate the shadow, and trust life.” It’s about facing those emotions so we can continue on the path to wholeness.

When we resist our emotions for too long, often out of self-judgment, we create more tension. People judge themselves as weak or “not good enough” if they feel anything other than positive emotions. So, they hide from their true feelings. But avoiding emotions only worsens the tension and keeps us in sympathetic dominance—the state where we can’t fully relax, always feeling like something’s missing. There’s a constant itch we can’t scratch, and we wander through life wondering if we’ll ever feel whole again. The truth is, we won’t feel whole until we face those emotions head-on.

John Bradshaw, in his book Healing the Shame that Binds You, says, “Emotions are energy in motion.” If we allow emotions to move, they will eventually dissolve. But when we hold onto them, due to a mental disconnect with ourselves or because of the emotional tension we carry, it creates friction. This tension, between our real emotions and the identity we’ve built to avoid them, also manifests physically in the body. If we don’t face this, we stay trapped in that state of tension, and it impacts every part of our lives.

The good news is that when we release bodily tension, improve our mental relationship with ourselves, and summon the courage to face our emotional baggage, healing begins to happen naturally. A lot of unnecessary tension dissolves, and we can balance our nervous system, bringing us closer to where we want to be.

So, to wrap up, we’ve talked about physical, mental, and emotional tension. Much of this tension is something we can choose to let go of by living in a way that’s more aligned with how our parasympathetic nervous system wants us to be—relaxed, breathing slowly, stretching mentally, emotionally, and physically. The lesson here is that what’s good for the body is good for the mind. If we can stretch ourselves in healthy ways—both physically and mentally—we can release tension and get back on the path to wholeness. We don’t have to live in constant stress or sympathetic dominance. We can find balance, and when we’re balanced, we can trust life because we can trust ourselves.

As I mentioned, the parasympathetic nervous system is a prerequisite for trust. When we reach that state of balance, that’s when life becomes real, and we can finally be who we’re meant to be—without the filter of the sympathetic nervous system’s stress responses, but from a place rooted in truth and balance.

So, that was my take on sympathetic dominance and the different levels of tension. Apologies if I rambled a bit—it’s a lot of information! But to sum it up: there are three levels of tension—the physical, the mental, and the emotional—and there are things you can do about each one. The key is to start small. If you feel stressed, pick one thing at each level and work on it.

For the physical: loosen up with some stretching, foam rolling, or yoga, and focus on your breath.

For the mental: examine your beliefs. What beliefs are holding you back? Are you resisting the truth about yourself or life? Journaling is a great way to explore this.
For the emotional: what emotions have you been avoiding? Again, journaling or meditation can help. Yin yoga is also great for processing emotions since it brings up a lot when you’re still and present with yourself.

Ultimately, choose to do something about your tension—whether it’s physical, mental, or emotional—and start from there.

Practical Tip:

For each of the three areas—physical, mental, and emotional—identify one specific action you can take and commit to it. For those interested in a more structured approach, I’ve created the BAM Challenge on my website. BAM stands for “Bare Ass Minimum,” and it’s a seven-day challenge where I’ll send you one simple task each day to help you start improving your life. The idea is to keep things straightforward and manageable, so you can make real progress without feeling overwhelmed.

In contrast to my more in-depth course, the Personality Transplant, which is comprehensive but time-consuming, the BAM Challenge is designed to be quick and practical. It covers essentials like meditation, exercise, vision setting, and habit formation. If you’re interested, you can check it out at olianderson.co.uk/bam. The link will also be in the show notes.

If you want to dive deeper or discuss how to implement these changes, feel free to book a call with me through my website at olianderson.co.uk/talk. I help people transform their lives by clarifying their vision, setting goals, and integrating these principles into their daily routines.

Ultimately, regulating your nervous system and letting go of tension provides a solid foundation for a healthier relationship with yourself, with life, and with the truth. It sets the stage for building something that not only serves you but also positively impacts everyone around you.

So, go ahead and start sorting out that nervous system. I hope you find this helpful. Thanks for tuning in, and peace to you.

The Layers of Synchronicity: Consciousness, Unconsciousness, and Beyond (Creative Status: Episode 99: Oli Anderson)

Creative Status is a podcast about using creativity as a vehicle for improving your life by deconstructing ego, integrating the shadow self, and designing and manifesting a real life through the power of TRUST.

Every episode explores how the creative process can help you GROW REAL by moving towards wholeness in yourself by making the unconscious conscious.

In this episode, we delve into the intriguing concept of synchronicity and how it can guide us on our journey towards wholeness. We explore three different levels of experiences that may appear synchronistic and how to discern the real from the illusory.

Understanding Synchronicity: We begin with an overview of synchronicity, a term coined by Carl Jung to describe meaningful coincidences that seem to defy probability. We look at various cultural interpretations, from Vedic philosophy to Taoism and Christianity, and discuss how these experiences can signify alignment with our true path.

Three Levels of Synchronicity: This episode breaks down three levels of experiences that can be mistaken for synchronicity:

1. The Conscious Mind: Often, we consciously look for signs because we don’t trust life. This can lead to self-fulfilling patterns where we see what we want to see, driven by our reticular activation system.

2. The Unconscious Mind: Our unresolved emotions, such as shame and guilt, can project themselves into our experiences, making us believe in synchronicities that are actually reflections of our inner turmoil.

3. Universal Consciousness: True synchronicity occurs when we let go of ego resistance and align with the present moment. This allows the truth to break through, guiding us towards our real path.

Creative Status: Synchronicity

Join me in this episode as we explore the depths of synchronicity and how to distinguish genuine experiences from those driven by our conscious or unconscious mind.

This episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking to navigate life’s meaningful coincidences and move towards a more unified and authentic existence.

Stay real out there,

Oli

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Show Transcript: The Layers of Synchronicity: Consciousness, Unconsciousness, and Beyond

#99: Oli Anderson: The Layers of Synchronicity: Consciousness, Unconsciousness, and Beyond

Oh, hi there. Oli Anderson here. You’re listening to Creative Status, a podcast about tapping into our realness. This means we’re ultimately learning to unconditionally accept ourselves as beings constantly evolving towards a deeper connection to wholeness. That involves connection to ourselves, to other people, and to life itself—essentially, it’s about uncovering the truth and then living that truth.

Today, I want to talk about synchronicity. I’m actually going to keep this episode short—although I always say that, and then end up rambling for half an hour! But today, I just want to discuss three different levels of experiences that either are or are not synchronicities. Sometimes, we mistakenly perceive certain experiences as synchronistic, and if we’re incorrect, it can take us off the path we truly want to be on, which is the path towards wholeness. Often, what we think of as synchronicity is just a reflection of our own fragmentation, projected out into the world from our unconscious. We then reflect it back at ourselves and experience it as a synchronistic event.

In this short podcast, I want to clarify that while synchronicity is a real phenomenon, many things we consider to be synchronicities are actually something else. So, let’s get into it.

Before I delve into the three different levels at which we can start to understand synchronistic experiences, let’s quickly review what synchronicity even is. The word “synchronicity” was coined by Carl Jung in his 1950s book Synchronicity: An Acausal Connecting Principle. He wasn’t the first to recognise synchronicity as a phenomenon, but he was the one who named it. Essentially, it can be defined as when two seemingly unrelated events come together in time and space, appearing very meaningful to the person experiencing them because of their interpretation. The subjective meaning attached to these synchronistic events, or extreme coincidences, if you prefer to call them that, often goes far beyond the probability of random chance, making them seem deeply significant to the individual involved.

Even though Jung coined the term “synchronicity,” it’s something that all human beings have likely experienced at least once or twice in their lives. In Vedic philosophy, synchronicity is viewed as a sign that you’re in alignment with your Dharma—that is, you’re walking the path you’re supposed to walk. In Taoism, there’s the concept of Wu Wei, where you act without acting, and when you align yourself with the Tao, things just tend to work out, leading to these meaningful experiences that we now refer to as synchronicities. In Christianity, a synchronicity might be seen as a sign that you’re aligned with God’s will. So, it’s a very common phenomenon, and something many people experience in their lives. It’s also something many people desire to experience because it can feel like validation—if you’re getting synchronicities, you might think you’re doing something right, and if you’re not, you may feel the need to mix things up. This desire can lead people down some interesting paths, which I’ll discuss in a moment.

One of the most famous examples of synchronicity is found in Carl Jung’s book Synchronicity: An Acausal Connecting Principle, where he recounts a story about working with a patient in his office. This woman was struggling to come to terms with the existence of the unconscious mind, favouring a rational, left-brain way of thinking. This cerebral approach to life and its interpretations—often, in my opinion, a result of control issues or underlying shame—was something she found difficult to relinquish, making it hard for her to embrace the idea that there was something more to life, something bigger.

During the session, Carl Jung spoke to this woman about a dream she had. She described dreaming about a scarab beetle. As Jung began to deconstruct this dream, he realised that the scarab beetle was a symbol of change, growth, and transformation in ancient Egypt. He understood that the woman was on the brink of letting go of the rationalistic ways of thinking that were actually holding her back from the life she wanted to live.

Long story short, Jung continued working with this woman, and she began to have some sort of breakthrough, or at least she became more open to what he was saying. As the story goes, what tipped her over the edge was a sudden tapping on the window in Jung’s office. When he went over to investigate, he found a scarab beetle—though not the golden one from her dream, but the Swiss equivalent. Jung caught the beetle, brought it inside, and showed it to the woman.

Jung used this incident as an example of a deeply meaningful experience where two seemingly unrelated events happened in time and space—the scarab beetle tapping on the window and the patient discussing its significance in her dream. These events came together in a way that opened things up for the patient and, no doubt, for Jung as well, anchoring them both in the present moment to an extreme degree.

This, to me, is what a true synchronicity is: it occurs when you let go of resistance, abandon ego distortions, and finally surrender to the present moment. You find yourself on the path you’re meant to be on, and these kinds of things just happen. I’m getting a bit ahead of myself here, as this is the third point I want to make in this podcast, but for now, that’s what synchronicity is—when two events occur in time and space that seem exceptionally meaningful, beyond any reasonable or rational explanation. From such incidents, we can derive deeper meanings that allow us to move forward in life in a real way.

This episode is based around three different levels that we can experience synchronistic events

So, now that I’ve mentioned it, I want to go over the three key takeaways I want to share with you in this episode, focusing on the three different levels of experiences that may appear to be synchronistic—two of which aren’t necessarily synchronicity. The third level, however, represents true synchronicity, which is essentially what I mentioned earlier: it’s connected to wholeness. In this state, we’re either returning to the path we’re meant to be on, or we’re already walking that path because we’ve done the inner work and are no longer distancing ourselves from it. As we continue to walk deeper into wholeness, we’ll keep experiencing these highly meaningful synchronicities.

In every solo episode, I try to offer three takeaways that you can reflect on afterward or use to guide yourself as you move through life. This episode is no different—it’s centred around three different levels at which we can experience synchronistic events. These levels are:

  1. The level of the conscious mind, operating within the context of what it already knows and understands about ourselves and life.
  2. The unconscious level, where the unconscious mind communicates with the conscious mind.
  3. Universal consciousness, or wholeness, bursting through the fragmented relationship we have with ourselves, showing us that we’re either returning to the path (by releasing tension, ego distortion, and resistance that kept us from it) or simply walking on it.

I’ll quickly break these down. The first level, as I mentioned, is the level of the conscious mind. In this context, it means we’re experiencing these coincidences because we’ve consciously decided to look for them. The most common reason people consciously search for synchronicities or signs is that they don’t fully trust life, so they test it. They tell themselves that if they can find a sign, it means life can be trusted, and then they can start making changes or take a leap of faith to do what they really want.

However, a pattern I’ve noticed is that people who get caught up in this level of consciously searching for signs rarely make any real changes. When they do see a sign, they just look for the next one, and the next, getting stuck in a cycle of constantly searching for signs without ever transforming their lives as they desire.

What’s interesting about this conscious level of “synchronicity” (if it can even be called that) is that it’s really just our brains tricking us into thinking something is more meaningful than it is. This is where the reticular activation system (RAS) comes into play. The RAS is a network of neurons in the brainstem responsible for focusing your attention based on what you believe, what you’re looking for, and what’s significant in your life at any given time.

A classic example of the RAS in action is when you buy a new car—say, a Mini—and suddenly you start noticing Minis everywhere. That’s because your brain has been programmed to consider Minis relevant for your awareness and attention at that moment. Similarly, if you start looking for signs, like angel numbers or some astrological symbol, you’re telling your brain to focus on finding these things. But that doesn’t make them true synchronicities. A real synchronicity isn’t something you can seek out; it arrives uninvited, from beyond, on its own terms, when you’re ready to see it.

If you’re searching for signs because you don’t trust life and feel you need that extra nudge to trust a little more, what you’re really seeing is your relationship with yourself reflected out into the world—not life trying to break into your conscious awareness and bring you into a greater relationship with it.

A common example of this is angel numbers. Some people believe that seeing a double number (like 11:11 or 22:22) is a sign that something magical is happening, and they can trust life. However, rationally, if you think about angel numbers, you’ll see why this isn’t a synchronistic or highly meaningful symbol of the universe trying to communicate with you. It’s just us tricking ourselves into seeing significance where there isn’t any.

Consider this: every hour, there are five opportunities to see these angel numbers—11:11, 22:22, and so on. Over 24 hours, that adds up to 120 chances. If you’ve primed your RAS to look for these numbers so you can finally trust life, you’re likely to see them throughout your day, especially if you’re someone who’s constantly on your phone, with the clock always visible at the top of the screen. When you see these numbers, you might tell yourself, “Wow, I’ve seen this angel number, so I can trust life.” But you probably won’t make any real changes, because you’re operating at the level of the conscious mind. True change requires working with the unconscious mind and addressing the blocks and patterns that hold you back.

This brings us to the second takeaway: Often, we think we’re experiencing a synchronicity—a moment where universal truth or whatever you want to call it is breaking into our lives because we’ve let go of some ego resistance or distortion that’s been holding us back. In these moments, we might feel deeply connected to everything at the level of the unconscious mind. If you’ve followed my podcast, YouTube channel, or books, you know that our unconscious relationship with ourselves—particularly the unresolved emotions like shame, guilt, and trauma—often creates blocks that prevent us from fully engaging with life. To avoid facing these difficult emotions before we’re ready, we create an ego version of ourselves that feels in control.

This leads to a significant disconnect between our conscious identity and who we truly are beneath the surface. We end up relegating many real parts of ourselves—our goals, intentions, values, feelings, thoughts, and our capacity to accept reality—into the shadow, where they remain hidden. When these unconscious blocks are in place, we may start experiencing synchronicities, or what we perceive as such, in the external world. However, it’s not really universal consciousness breaking through; it’s our hidden emotional issues trying to get our attention.

This is a common pitfall I see in people’s healing journeys. They experience events they interpret as deeply meaningful, but in reality, it’s just their emotions trying to communicate in a way that doesn’t overwhelm their ego. For example, many people consult astrologers, energy healers, or tarot card readers and find meaning in something like a tarot card. They might think the card itself holds the meaning, but really, the meaning they extract is a reflection of what’s happening inside them.

Carl Jung spoke about dreams in a similar way. He noted that when interpreting a dream, you can never be certain your interpretation is factually accurate. However, that doesn’t matter because the interpretation itself reveals what’s going on inside you. So, if you see a tarot card with, say, a picture of a cat and interpret it as your deceased cat communicating from beyond, what it actually indicates is an unconscious desire to hold on to your cat’s memory because letting go is too painful.

I don’t mean to be insensitive, but this illustrates how people often project their unconscious emotions onto external experiences, particularly in spiritual contexts. They might take these experiences literally because their conscious mind wants to believe something that aligns with their unresolved emotions. However, this isn’t real synchronicity. It’s not the universe, God, or truth speaking to you; it’s your own self trying to communicate and guide you back to a place of acceptance. Once you reach that acceptance, you can start building a more integrated and authentic life.

A similar thing happens with practices like channeling. People may believe they’re channeling messages from an external source, but often it’s just their unconscious mind trying to communicate in a way that allows them to stay detached. If the message isn’t something they’re ready to consciously accept, they can dismiss it as coming from “outer space” or some other distant source. This allows them to explore their true thoughts and feelings while still keeping them at arm’s length.

Ultimately, the goal of any healing journey is to embrace your unconscious material to the greatest extent possible so that you can integrate it and build on it. Many spiritual practices, despite their intentions, are simply vehicles for engaging with these unconscious aspects.

Another example is archetypes. While they can be useful tools for self-discovery, people often take them too literally, especially on the internet. This literal interpretation can keep them distanced from their emotions. If you see an archetype as entirely separate from yourself, using it only as a connection to real parts of yourself, you remain fragmented. True integration comes when you recognize the archetype as part of yourself, use it to connect, and then let it go once it has served its purpose. Without this integration, you’ll continue to feel divided within yourself.

Universal consciousness or wholeness breaking through

The third takeaway ties into what I’ve already mentioned about universal consciousness or wholeness breaking through. My current understanding of synchronicity is that a real synchronicity occurs when truth breaks into your life because you’ve either released the tension that was holding you back from surrendering to life, or you’ve done the inner work necessary to manage your conscious mind. This involves deconstructing the ego, understanding what’s going on within, and learning to trust life as you move towards acceptance.

When you begin to explore your unconscious relationship with yourself, face your shadow, and do the inner work, you can reach a point where your actions align with what you’ve come to accept and understand about life. This alignment puts you in a position where you’re genuinely moving forward, taking steps that are rooted in the truth of who you are and what life is offering you. That’s when you begin to experience true synchronicities, similar to the one Carl Jung shared with his patient.

To put it simply, my coaching philosophy follows the pathway of deconstructing the ego, integrating the shadow, and then manifesting a real life built on awareness, acceptance, and aligned action. This process isn’t linear but rather cyclical. You start by managing the conscious mind, then improve your relationship with your unconscious mind, and eventually, you release the tension you’ve been holding onto by embracing what’s real. It’s at this point that true synchronicities, like the one Jung described, begin to happen.

I had a similar experience with a coaching client. We were having a session in my living room—where I’m recording this podcast right now, though that’s not particularly relevant. This client had been very passive in life, held back by shame and fear, and unable to take the actions he wanted due to all the mental chatter that plagued him. During our session, I used a metaphor I often employ: a train. You’re either on the train, moving towards your purpose, or you’re at the station, distracting yourself from it.

As we discussed this metaphor, the client started to get really excited. I could see the shift happening within him. I pointed to the front door and said, “By the time you leave this apartment, you’re going to be on the train.” He was pumped up, ready to take action. But then something remarkable happened. While we were having this conversation, there was an Italian coffee mocha on the stove, which, if you don’t know, works by boiling water and sending pressure through coffee grounds, with a steam valve on the side. At the exact moment I said, “You’re getting on the train,” the mocha started to whistle like a steam train. I’ve never heard it do that before or since, at least not in such a significant way.

In that moment, the client and I just looked at each other, astonished. It was an incredible synchronicity, much like Jung’s example. This client had begun to let go of the tension he’d been holding onto and was ready to step onto his true path. And in that moment, I believe he was fully present, having returned to the present. That’s what this is all about.

When you’re present, or when you’ve let go of the things preventing you from being present, you’re more likely to experience these synchronicities. Being present also means you’re trusting life. Unlike the earlier example of people looking for signs like angel numbers, when you’re truly present, you’re not hiding from your emotions or allowing your ego to block your way. Instead, you’ve released those barriers, making space for real synchronicities to occur.

And if you continue to stay on the path that presence puts you on, you’ll likely experience more and more synchronicities. Essentially, you’ve opened up a positive spiral that takes you deeper and deeper into wholeness.

So, that was the podcast on synchronicity. I always seem to struggle with making short videos, podcasts, or books, so perhaps I should just resolve to stop saying that I will!

To wrap things up, let’s recap the three takeaways from this episode. First, synchronicity is a real phenomenon. I’ve experienced it multiple times in my life, but I believe there are three levels of potential synchronicity, two of which aren’t true synchronicities at all. The first level involves the conscious mind, where we start looking for signs because we don’t fully trust life. In this case, we’re outsourcing our trust and ability to take action, relying on signs like training wheels on a bike, but often never taking those wheels off.

The second level is the unconscious mind, where our unresolved emotions get projected out into the world—onto a tarot card, a dream, or something similar. We might take these projections literally, not realizing that it’s our unconscious mind trying to communicate what’s really going on inside us. When we align these two levels with the truth—meaning we see them for what they are and accept life as it is, surrendering to it and letting go of what we can’t control—we put ourselves back on the path we’re meant to be on.

When we first return to that path, it’s quite likely that we’ll experience a real synchronicity—a significant or extreme coincidence that signals our return to presence. And if we continue to walk in presence and stay true, we’ll likely experience more synchronicities. But at the end of the day, you don’t need synchronicities to be real. All you need to do is let go of anything that holds you back from the truth, align yourself with your best understanding of the truth, and keep taking action from that place.

If you’re looking for a practical exercise, I’d suggest keeping your eyes open for the synchronicities you experience as you move forward, or take some time to reflect on the ones you’ve already encountered. Ask yourself whether it was just your conscious mind looking for signs because you didn’t trust life, or if it was some emotional issue trying to get your attention. Or was it the real deal—where you let go of something and became fully present? And if so, are you still present and walking that path? Journaling about your experiences with synchronicity might help you understand them better and see what you can still learn.

Much of what I’ve discussed today is from a new book I’m working on called Trust, which I plan to release by the end of 2024. The book is about raising awareness, accepting who you really are and what’s going on inside you, letting go, and then taking action. It’s about staying on your true path and moving towards wholeness.

If you want to learn more about my coaching or the transformational journey from fragmentation to wholeness, I have a free download available on my website—a PDF called Ego, Shadow, Trust. It covers the transformational journey I’ve mentioned: awareness, acceptance, and action. You can find it at oliAnderson.co.uk, where a pop-up will guide you to it, or directly at olianderson.co.uk/EgoShadowTrust. If you’d like to talk to me, you can also book a call on my website—just head to the main page, and you’ll find buttons to book a video call.

I hope this episode made you think. Synchronicity is one of my favourite topics, and I wouldn’t be surprised if we all start experiencing a lot of synchronicities after this conversation. But whatever happens, stay real, keep walking your own path. Peace to you, and I hope this helps once again. Boom.

From Confusion to Clarity: Embracing Realness (Creative Status: Episode 98: Oli Anderson)

Creative Status is a podcast about using creativity as a vehicle for improving your life by deconstructing ego, integrating the shadow self, and designing and manifesting a real life through the power of TRUST.

Every episode explores how the creative process can help you GROW REAL by moving towards wholeness in yourself by making the unconscious conscious.

In this solo episode, we delve into the essential theme of clarity versus confusion and how to navigate between the two states to live a more fulfilling and REAL life. We discuss the common struggle for clarity, which many people face and explore where confusion comes from and what to DO about it.

Understanding Clarity and Confusion: We look at the idea that clarity is a state of realness, while confusion stems from fragmentation and disconnection from our true selves. We also examine how societal and personal ‘noise’ contribute to this confusion and how we can return to our natural signal of wholeness.

Three Key Takeaways:

1. Choices Lead to Clarity or Confusion: The choices we make either bring us closer to clarity or deepen our confusion. By consistently choosing wholeness over fragmentation, we can start to align with our true selves.

2. The Turning Point: Recognising that every moment offers a turning point, this episode is a reminder of the importance of making conscious choices now to shape a clearer, more authentic future. The path to clarity involves envisioning the life you want and making choices that align with that vision.

3. Focus on One Thing: To overcome confusion, you can FOCUS on just ONE REAL THING that is emerging in your life. This approach simplifies your path, reduces complexity, and helps you take meaningful actions that lead to clarity.

Creative Status: Clarity vs. Confusion

Join me in this episode as we explore the journey from confusion to clarity. This episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking to navigate life’s complexities and move towards a more unified and authentic existence.

Stay real out there,

Oli Anderson (⁠⁠⁠⁠www.olianderson.co.uk⁠⁠⁠⁠)

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Show Transcript: From Confusion to Clarity

This podcast is a place where we talk about the human condition

Oh, hi there. Oli Anderson here. You’re listening to Creative Status. If you’re new to the podcast, welcome. If you’re returning, welcome back—thank you so much. This is a place where we talk about the human condition, what it means to be a real human being, how we can move towards wholeness, our relationship with ourselves, the relationships we have with others, and our relationship with life itself. We explore how we can navigate the world while keeping the idea of wholeness in mind, so we can continue evolving, growing, and living the best possible life while creating something real during our time here.

 This is another solo episode. If you’re new, this podcast traditionally features interviews, but the last few episodes have all been solo, with just me. I will continue to do interviews, but only when it’s something that genuinely excites me. This isn’t to belittle any of the guests I’ve already interviewed, but rather to ensure I can bring more energy to these conversations and really share the most value possible. I suppose what I’m saying is that it’s going to be about quality, not quantity.

So, anyway, today’s episode is going to be short—hopefully. I want to talk about clarity and confusion, and how we can bring more clarity into our lives. The reason I want to discuss this is because clarity is something I often see people searching for when they come to my coaching practice, especially when they initially reach out for coaching. It’s a very common issue, and clarity is a word that people frequently use.

I believe that so many people are seeking clarity because the world itself is confused, and the people who make up the world are confused. I want to explore how this confusion happens, what we can do about it, and how we can bring more clarity into our lives. This will help us move forward, take meaningful actions, and flow through life instead of forcing things or constantly banging our heads against a brick wall—whether because we’re distracting ourselves, lack direction, don’t know what we’re doing, or are simply running on autopilot according to old conditioning and scripts.

Ultimately, this is going to be a short episode, but we’re going to examine clarity and confusion: where this confusion that holds people back comes from, what you can do about it, and how you can move forward in your own life.

We’ve already set up a dichotomy here between clarity, on the one hand, and confusion, on the other. As you can probably guess if you’ve listened to me before, clarity is something I see as very real, whereas confusion is unreal in the sense that it is unnecessary. We don’t need to be confused. The main takeaway from this episode, right from the start, is that if you are living in a generally confused state—not just grappling with a specific problem but confused about life in general—then there’s a very high chance that, surprise, surprise, as this is a major theme of this podcast and everything I talk about, you’ve become disconnected from yourself at the level of your own realness, your own connection to truth and wholeness.

When that disconnection happens, we end up creating a false version of ourselves, which I often refer to as the ego. When we identify with the ego, we send all the very real parts of ourselves that need to be expressed in order to gain clarity in life into the shadow self, where they are exiled. When this happens, we end up filtering everything we do through this fragmented, ego-driven version of ourselves. Over time, if we continue to make choices from this fragmented place, our lives become increasingly fragmented. The goals we pursue, for example, often reflect the disconnection within ourselves, which is frequently one of the core motivations driving us to chase these goals in the first place. But because those goals are motivated by fragmentation, they only end up exacerbating the problem and adding more confusion.

If we are fragmented in the way I’m describing, our emotional relationship with ourselves doesn’t allow us to feel what we need to feel, leading to confusion about what’s really going on inside us and who we really are. When everything we do is filtered through this fragmentation, we ultimately become more confused because we add more unnecessary complexity to our lives, creating more noise that distorts the pure signal of wholeness already within us.

So, ultimately, moving from confusion to clarity is about breaking away from all that noise and returning to the natural signal already within us—in this metaphor, that signal is simply our realness, our connection to the wholeness that we already possess.

That’s the context within which I’m framing this dichotomy of clarity and confusion. Confusion arises when we live in a way that brings more noise into our lives because of our fragmentation. This noise includes self-limiting beliefs, emotional stagnation, and all the things we do to distract ourselves from our inner split and disconnection in the first place. It’s the time-wasting activities like binge-watching Netflix when we don’t really want to, but don’t know what else to do because we’ve become detached from our purpose. It’s engaging in empty relationships with people because we’ve forgotten that it’s better to be alone than in bad company, and we’re trying to distract ourselves.

We can spend our whole lives bringing unnecessary noise into the equation, which only blocks the signal. Going from confusion to clarity is really about listening and tuning back into the signal that’s already there—and that signal is wholeness.

Confusion or clarity is a product of the choices you’ve made

With all of these solo episodes, there are three key takeaways I want you to focus on. I’m going to go through them now in relation to the topic of confusion versus clarity.

The first takeaway is this: It ultimately comes down to choice. Confusion or clarity is a product of the choices you’ve been making. It boils down to whether or not—surprise, surprise—you’re choosing either wholeness or fragmentation in each moment. If you continually choose fragmentation, driven by a core motivation to run away from yourself because of the inner split between the ego and the shadow (and the shame that often fuels the dance between them), then over time, you’re going to end up confused. The reason is that the gap between who you think you are and your real self will widen. Additionally, you’ll choose coping mechanisms to deal with that disconnection—like distracting yourself with Netflix, empty relationships, food, or whatever else. These distractions are merely coping mechanisms for being fragmented in the first place, but they add unnecessary complexity that only worsens the confusion.

If you do this long enough, you’ll reach a point where your life no longer feels like yours. You’ll feel the need to change things but won’t know where to start because of all the layers of confusion, complexity, and distraction. You’ll feel overwhelmed and lost. So, the first takeaway is that if you find yourself needing clarity, understand that you got there because you were choosing a fragmented relationship with yourself. This fragmentation extended to your relationships with others and with life itself. When you add all of that together, you end up with a hodgepodge of coping mechanisms and goals that aren’t aligned with your real values and intentions, leaving you confused. It all stems from choosing the ego over the shadow self. If you’re generally confused about life, not just about a specific problem, it’s because you’ve been habitually choosing fragmentation. To find your way back to clarity, you need to start changing those habitual choices.

In my coaching, we usually start by figuring out a vision, breaking it down into goals, and then into habits. The last episode of this podcast was about creating a morning routine that aligns you with your real self. Doing things like this helps you rewire and reconfigure your unconscious relationship with yourself. If you’re confused in the way we’re discussing, it means your unconscious mind—your unconscious habits—are driving you to choose fragmentation instead of wholeness. So, the first point is this: The choices you’ve made have led to either clarity or confusion. If you want to find clarity, you need to start choosing wholeness and undo the damage caused by acting on autopilot, driven by the ego-shadow dance, and consistently choosing fragmentation over time, which inevitably leads to confusion.

The second takeaway is about what happens if you keep making these choices. This is really to remind you that we’re all constantly at a sort of turning point. The choices we make today, moving forward, will ultimately affect our future. If you’re currently in a place of confusion and continue making the same choices for fragmentation, then five or ten years down the line, things will either stay the same, with you still being confused, or they’ll get worse as you add more layers of complexity, confusion, limitation, and fear to your experience of life.

This takeaway is short and sweet: If you want to change your life and feel confused, you need to think seriously about how things will be if you don’t start making choices for wholeness and realness instead of the fragmentary patterns that have confused and held you back. If you’re in this situation, it’s crucial to consider the kind of life you want to live, the person you want to be, and the path you see yourself on as you move forward. If you project forward and imagine continuing to do what you’re doing now—thinking the way you think, behaving as you do—will you be happy, or will you be even more confused? If the latter, it’s time to start choosing wholeness over fragmentation. If you can see some light, a potential for improvement, it’s likely because you’re either introducing some wholeness into the equation or are preparing to do so. This means you’re getting ready to act on the real things within you that are starting to emerge.

So, that was a short and sweet takeaway, but it underscores the point that the choices you make now will determine where you end up in the future—whether you remain confused or find clarity. The first takeaway was that the choices you’ve made led you to where you are, and the second takeaway is that the choices you make moving forward will determine where you go. This all comes down to choosing either fragmentation and the same old nonsense or wholeness and something real.

The third and final takeaway is that if you want to move towards clarity and overcome confusion, you need to change the way you’ve been thinking and acting—obviously. As I’ve already mentioned, this is about choosing wholeness over fragmentation. But the third takeaway is that the best way to do this, in relation to clarity, is to be single-minded in your approach. This means you need to focus on just one thing. Often, when we’re confused in this fragmented way, it’s because we’re trying to choose a million different things at once. We don’t have a clear vision for ourselves, so we’re not directing everything towards it. We often lack goals and habits and are just moving through life aimlessly, hoping things will work out. While it’s great to do your best, without a fundamental structure and while running away from yourself through fragmentation, distraction, and nonsense, you end up doing too many things at once. This only deepens the confusion, pulling you further into the void and making you more fragmented because there’s no unity in the choices you’re making.

The third takeaway is simple: Just find one thing. That’s all you need to start moving towards clarity. You don’t need a million different things to fix your life; you just need one. The good news is that if you stop, reflect, and look at yourself and your life, this one thing is already emerging on some level. It might be a broad or nebulous concept, but something is trying to surface in your life. If you act on it, it will bring more clarity, because whatever this one thing is, it’s real. It’s coming from your unconscious and trying to make itself conscious. If you stop blocking it with fragmentation, distraction, and confusion, or by believing that you’re confused, you’ll allow it to surface and take action based on it. Then, once you do that, the next one thing will emerge, and then the next, and the next.

When you focus on just one thing and concentrate on it, the problems of duality, complexity, and fragmentation start to fade away. They dissolve because your mind is given something to focus on. The reason we end up confused and choose fragmentation instead of wholeness is because our minds aren’t under our control.

Our minds, when not mastered, tend to lead us wherever they want to go. You’ve probably heard the expression “monkey mind,” which describes how our thoughts hop from one place to another, much like a monkey jumping from branch to branch. Without mastery over your mind, this is exactly what happens with the choices you make. You end up choosing one unreal thing after another, based on whatever is happening inside you at the moment.

If you can focus on just one thing—whether it’s a creative project, a necessary conversation, something you want to express through music, or even a new hobby like yoga—then you’ll start to bring more clarity into your life. Focusing on one real thing does two important things: First, it gives your mind something to focus on, which helps eliminate a lot of the confusion. Second, by acting on something real, you begin taking steps towards wholeness, which starts to remedy the effects of the fragmentation that caused the confusion in the first place.

So, to recap, this episode was a quick dive into the themes of confusion and clarity. The three key takeaways are:

  1. Confusion Stems from Fragmentation: If you find yourself confused about life, directionless, or unsure of who you are, it’s likely because you’ve been choosing fragmentation over wholeness. This means you’ve been filtering everything through your ego, blocking the expression of your real self—often due to unresolved shame, guilt, and trauma, as well as a fear of discovering who you truly are.
  2. You’re at a Turning Point: Now that you’re aware of this, you’re at a critical juncture. If you project forward and imagine how life will unfold based on your current thoughts, feelings, and choices, you’ll be able to tell whether you’re headed towards more fragmentation or towards wholeness.
  3. Start with One Real Thing: The path to clarity doesn’t have to be complicated. It’s about finding one thing that is real to you and acting on it. This focus will help you master your mind, give you direction, and allow you to take actions that align with wholeness rather than fragmentation.

To make this practical, the next step is clear: Sit down and figure out what that one thing is for you.

What is one thing that is calling out to you right now?

What is the one thing that is calling out to you right now? What is emerging from your shadow self, trying to surface so that your real life can emerge? For most of us, our real life is hiding in the shadows. That’s why it always comes down to awareness, acceptance, and action. If you can identify that one thing and start acting on it, life will become a little less confusing, as that one thing will inevitably bring more clarity.

That’s the podcast. I hope it helped you and made sense. I hope you find that one thing. If you want to learn more about transformation and realness, I’ve got a free PDF available for download on my website. Just go to olianderson.co.uk and search for “Ego Shadow Trust.” The PDF walks you through the process of awareness, acceptance, and action.

If you’d like to book a call with me to figure out what that one thing might be for you, you can do that on my website as well. The initial call is free. Just go to olianderson.co.uk/talk.

In any case, stay real out there. Find peace by walking the real path. I hope this helped you. Peace.

Energise Your Day: The Power of a REAL Morning Routine (Creative Status: Episode 97: Oli Anderson)

Creative Status is a podcast about using creativity as a vehicle for improving your life by deconstructing ego, integrating the shadow self, and designing and manifesting a real life through the power of TRUST.

Every episode explores how the creative process can help you GROW REAL by moving towards wholeness in yourself by making the unconscious conscious.

In this solo episode, we dive into the transformative power of morning routines and how they can set the tone for a productive and fulfilling day.

To do this we break down the essential elements of a morning routine that can help you wake up your body, quiet your mind, and set a clear direction for your day.

Waking Up the Body: We discuss the importance of physical activity in the morning, whether it’s yoga, stretching, or high-intensity interval training. These activities can boost your energy levels, improve circulation, and enhance your overall well-being.

Quieting the Mind and Emotions: Learn how meditation, deep breathing, and journaling can help regulate your nervous system, reduce stress, and bring you into a state of presence. I share techniques like the 4-7-8 breathing method to help you start your day with mental clarity and emotional balance.

Setting the Tone for Action: Discover how to plan your day by setting goals, prioritising tasks, and aligning your actions with your long-term vision. The emphasis here is on the importance of consistency and how a well-structured morning routine can make you more productive and focused.

Creative Status: Designing Your REAL Morning Routine

Join me in this practical episode as we explore the benefits of a morning routine and how to create one that works for you. This episode is a must-listen for anyone looking to enhance their daily life and move towards a more REAL and purposeful existence.

Stay real out there,

Oli

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#97: Energise Your Day: The Power of a Purposeful Morning Routine (Edited Transcript)

This podcast is about creating a real version of ourselves

Oh, hi there. Oli Anderson here, and you’re listening to Creative Status. This is a podcast about creativity, but more importantly, it’s about creating a real version of ourselves. That means we’re looking at the ways we hold ourselves back from the truth about who we are, through our conditioning and habits that don’t move us forward. We start replacing these patterns with something that helps us build momentum, moving in a direction that’s real, true, and positive, ultimately leading us toward wholeness—wholeness in ourselves, in our relationships with others, and in our relationship with life itself.

If this is your first time finding the podcast, welcome! My name is Oli Anderson, and as I mentioned, I’m a transformational coach, which means I help people go from point A to point B, ensuring that point B is as real as possible. Traditionally, this podcast has been an interview format, but I’ve started bringing in some solo episodes. This episode is another solo one, where it’s just me talking about something that can help you with all the things I’m currently rambling about.

Today, I want to talk about morning routines. This is something I’ve been discussing quite a lot this week, and I actually got the inspiration for this episode from my email list. The email I sent out this week was a pick-and-mix breakdown of morning routines—different things you can choose and start implementing if you want to wake up your body, find presence, and set a direction for your day and life as a whole. I want to go over that in this podcast and break down that little system so that, by the end of it, you’ll understand exactly what you need to create a great morning routine to get your day started.

By the time we’re done, you’ll also be equipped to sit down and figure out your own morning routine so that you can start implementing this stuff and moving forward in your own life. So let’s get right into it. It’s going to be a short episode, hopefully, but it’s going to be very practical, very real, and you’ll be able to start building something that will take you toward wholeness.

If you choose the REAL morning routine for you, it can have multiple benefits and change your life.

Let’s quickly start by discussing some of the benefits of having a morning routine in the first place. For many people, the word “routine” sounds boring. There’s often resistance, with some thinking it might kill their creativity. But if you choose the right morning routine for you, and ensure that it’s enjoyable so you’ll actually stick to it, it can offer multiple benefits that will compound over time, steadily moving you in the direction you want to go.

If you make sure that the elements of your morning routine are things you see as an investment of your time—activities that allow you to keep growing and moving forward from one day to the next while bringing you a sense of peace and setting the tone for your day—then you’ll have a powerful tool for making the most of every day. There’s an old saying—maybe something from the wisdom of housewives—that what you do first thing in the morning sets the tone for your entire day. In my experience, and from what I’ve seen with my clients, this is absolutely true.

A morning routine has really helped me, and I’ll break down mine in a second. It’s also something I’ve seen work wonders for many of my clients who have struggled with discipline, consistency, or achieving the results they want. When they implement and stick to a morning routine, not only does it positively affect the external results they get—whether it’s working out, meditating, or whatever else they’re focused on—but it also helps them start growing into the person they want to be. If you’re on a transformational journey and have a clear understanding of who you’re trying to become, designing your morning routine around that vision means you start every day as the best possible version of yourself.

Now, you don’t have to create a morning routine that’s rigid or sucks the life out of everything, making it feel like a chore. If you design the routine in the right way, you’ll actually be excited to do it. As I always say, “If it ain’t fun, you ain’t getting it done.” So, keep that in mind as you build your routine.

My morning routine, just to give you an idea, is really simple but very effective. I do it every morning without fail. Some parts are just about waking myself up and getting into my body, while others are more about investing time in things that will compound over time, leading to increased results day by day. For example, part of my morning routine is writing. Every day, after I’ve done the other parts of my routine (which I’ll share in a second), I sit down and write until I feel like stopping. This habit has allowed me to make significant progress on a book I’m working on called Trust, which is about trusting life, trusting ourselves, and trusting the process of being alive. I started writing it at the beginning of the year, and I’ve just passed 420 pages. That progress is purely because I’ve sat down and written every morning. Some days I haven’t written for long, to be honest, but because it’s part of my routine, I’ve kept at it, and now I’m close to completing a book that I’ll probably be able to share with the world in a few months.

So, my morning routine is simple: I wake up, come downstairs, and do some yoga stretches. I love yoga, but I don’t follow a specific routine every morning. I roll out my yoga mat and sometimes do a bit of foam rolling, but mostly I just let my body move where it needs to go with the stretches. Some days I work on my back if it’s stiff after sleeping; other days, I focus on my hamstrings. Sometimes, I’ll do something like the Superman move—lying on my stomach and lifting my arms and legs in the air. It varies, but the basic principle is to get into my body, wake it up, and then do some sun salutations. I do Surya Namaskar B, which is a set of sun salutations from yoga. If you’re unfamiliar, it’s a simple flow that engages your whole body—you do some planks, some push-ups, lower into a plank or chaturanga. I do five rounds of that.

After that, I meditate. Then, I do some Om chanting—not for any religious reasons, but because it supposedly gives you a kind of internal massage. It seems to work for me. After that, I do five minutes of cardio or high-intensity interval training. Once that’s done, I make some coffee and sit down to write.

That’s my morning routine. It doesn’t have to be complicated, but by doing it every morning, I wake up my body, become present through meditation, and set a clear direction for the day ahead. One thing I forgot to mention: After all the physical stuff and meditation, I sit down and set my goals for the day. I use a journal I created called the Flow Builder, which I designed for my coaching clients and myself. This isn’t an advertisement, but basically, the Flow Builder has you do a mood check, set your intentions for the day—whether it’s health, wealth, relationships, or any other area you want to focus on. Then, you set a theme for the day, go over your to-do list, set your goals, and review your overall life vision to remind yourself of the key things you want to stay focused on.

This whole process takes about 30 to 35 minutes. By doing these things, I wake up my body, bring myself to presence, and establish clarity and direction for the day ahead. These three things—energizing your body, rooting yourself in presence, and setting clear goals—are incredibly powerful when brought together in a routine. You’re energized for the day ahead, you’ve quieted your mind so emotions don’t take you places you don’t want to go, and you know where you’re headed because you’ve set goals that align with your vision.

Another great thing about the Flow Builder is that I can look back at the previous day to see what goals I focused on or didn’t complete, and carry them over to today. This adds consistency between days, which is why this routine is so powerful. Of course, you don’t need the Flow Builder; you can simply write your goals down. But if you’re interested, you can find it on Amazon—just search for Oli Anderson Flow Builder.

Now, let’s move on to the next part of the podcast…

I’m going to quickly break down these three key elements: waking up the body, quieting the mind and emotions, and setting clarity and direction. I’ll give you some examples of what you can do for each, explain why they’re important, and hopefully inspire you to sit down and figure out how to integrate these three things into a routine that works for you. Once you have your routine in place, you’ll be able to energize yourself, move forward, and take consistent action every day, which will get you where you need to be and in tune with the vibe you want to live by. Essentially, you’ll be riding your own wave.

I always aim to provide three key takeaways in these solo episodes. So, the three takeaways for today are the three points in this system for creating a morning routine: waking up the body, quieting the mind and emotions, and planning the direction for the day ahead.

Physical exercise and waking up the body also brings mental clarity

Let’s talk about waking up the body. Why would you even want to do this? It might seem obvious to some, but it’s worth thinking about because it’s going to improve your physical health. Engaging in physical activities like stretching, yoga, qigong, high-intensity interval training, or even just light exercise will improve your circulation, increase flexibility, and boost your energy levels. If you stay consistent with it, these activities will also help your cardiovascular health, tone your muscles, and enhance your overall well-being.

Physical exercise and waking up the body also bring mental clarity. By increasing blood flow to your brain, you’ll clear mental fog, which helps with cognitive functioning throughout the day. This means better focus and sharper decision-making as you go about your tasks. So, while waking up the body impacts you physically, it also enhances your mood. The endorphins released are natural mood lifters, which can help minimize stress, anxiety, and depression, setting a solid tone for the day.

It’s simple: having the foundational habit of waking up your body in the morning puts you in the best possible position to face the day. The beauty of a consistent morning routine is that it compounds results over time. I often reflect on all the workouts I’ve done over the years—I’ve been working out for a long time. Each one was an investment, and I’m still reaping the benefits from workouts I did ten years ago. These accumulated benefits enhance my current experiences, like when I’m out hiking on the weekends.

Ultimately, waking up your body in the morning brings numerous benefits. So, what kind of activities can you do? It’s simple—you can exercise, stretch, jump up and down, do some cardio, grab a skipping rope, practice qigong or tai chi, or do yoga. I won’t spend too much time listing all the options, but there’s something out there that suits your interest and willingness to engage in physical activity. Like I always say, it should be something fun. All the activities I do—yoga, sun salutations, high-intensity interval training—I love them, so it’s not a chore for me.

Ultimately, you need to find a physical activity that’s fun for you, gets your blood flowing, and makes you feel good. If you do that every day, even on weekends, you’re going to see the benefits.

The second element of designing a morning routine is quieting the mind and emotions

The second element of this system for designing a morning routine is quieting the mind and emotions. This comes down to doing something that will calm your mind and regulate your nervous system. Most of the time, when we wake up in the morning, we’re in our sympathetic nervous system, which is the part of our nervous system that prepares us for action. Our bodies inject a ton of cortisol and other hormones into us first thing in the morning as part of our circadian rhythm, to wake us up, get us out of bed, and ready for action. But if you can quiet the mind and emotions, you’ll regulate your nervous system by waking up your parasympathetic nervous system and balancing out that sympathetic dominance most of us experience during the early stages of the morning.

This can be done through activities like meditation, journaling, or deep breathing. Deep breathing, in particular, is one of the best ways to regulate your nervous system. A technique I often share is called 4-7-8 breathing: inhale for 4 seconds, retain the breath for 7 seconds, and exhale for 8 seconds. Then, repeat the process. Like with physical activity, there are countless methods to quiet the mind and emotions, but the benefits are significant and build on the physical activity you’ve done.

The benefits include better emotional regulation. Mindfulness practices like meditation, deep breathing, and journaling can help you manage your emotions and make you less reactive throughout the day. You’ll have a rooted sense of who you are and what you’re capable of, enabling you to respond to life rather than just reacting to it. Without a morning routine to set the tone for your day, you increase the odds of going through life on autopilot, reacting out of old patterns and conditioning. By setting the tone in the morning, you’ll achieve better emotional balance and resilience to stress.

The main point of quieting the mind and emotions is to help you become more present. Presence is the best place to operate from as you go through the day. When we talk about setting the tone, we’re really talking about finding that place of presence within ourselves so that we can carry it into our day. This presence will alleviate stress by balancing the nervous system and give you mastery over the thoughts and emotions that might otherwise increase your stress levels, adding friction, frustration, and misery to your experience of the day. If you don’t achieve presence in the morning, you might find yourself overwhelmed by stress and negativity as the day progresses.

Another major benefit of quieting the mind and emotions is that it enhances self-awareness. These practices help you understand what’s going on inside you, ultimately putting you on the path of awareness, acceptance, and action—something we talk about a lot on this podcast, as well as in my coaching and books. If you’re present, you become more aware of what’s happening inside you, allowing you to accept it and take better actions as you move through the day.

This leads us to the third takeaway and the third part of this system for building a morning routine. It’s simple and something we’ve already touched on: incorporating activities into your morning that allow you to plan your direction for the day within the context of your broader vision for your life. This includes goal-setting, prioritizing, setting intentions, and reminding yourself of your vision. You can also review things you didn’t accomplish the day before and plan how to tackle them today.

This approach helps you gain clarity about what you’re going to do now that you’ve woken up your body and set the tone for the day. By finding clarity of action, you’ll be more productive because you’ve set intentions and priorities. You’ll have a better focus on how you spend your time, energy, and attention—the most important assets you have. If you know what to focus on and ensure it aligns with your real vision, goals, and supporting habits, you’ll eventually achieve the results you’re aiming for. What we focus on grows. Where we direct our energy is what increases in our lives. If you take just 5-10 minutes to think about this each morning, you’ll be able to stay focused and move yourself in the direction you want to go.

By planning your day in advance, you’ll improve productivity, align yourself with your goals, and ensure that your goals align with what you truly want to do in life and who you want to become. You’ll also reduce decision fatigue throughout the day. By planning ahead, you reduce the number of decisions you need to make, saving mental energy and preventing analysis paralysis, where you become stuck in indecision.

You might find yourself unsure of what to do simply because you haven’t taken the time to think about it. There are so many options out there, and without clarity, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed. But when you sit down and remind yourself of your vision, who you’re trying to become, and how you want to show up each day, you’ll start to feel motivated. As you take action and see the results compound day after day, you’ll keep growing and evolving.

The three pillars of waking up the body, quieting the mind and emotions, finding presence, and then setting the tone for your day through clarity and prioritization, all work together to create a powerful foundation. If you can commit to this morning routine daily, it will bring immense benefits to your life. It will help you cultivate discipline, a valuable quality that consistently moves you in the direction you want to go. Additionally, this routine fosters a balanced sense of well-being because you’re addressing your body, mind, and daily direction every day. It’s a holistic approach, yet simple in its execution—focusing on physical health, mental clarity, emotional balance, and purposeful living.

By sticking to this routine, you’ll develop a sense of consistency, something many people struggle with. I often see this in the early stages of coaching when people aren’t consistent with what they want to achieve. But by building a morning routine and conditioning yourself to stay disciplined, you’ll find that these habits spill over into other areas of your life, supporting you in becoming the person you want to be. It’s like the saying in yoga, “Take your yoga off the mat.” This morning routine becomes a microcosm for your life as a whole. As you continue to cultivate these qualities and live with purpose and presence, it will have positive effects across every area of your life.

Moreover, this kind of routine will help you regulate your nervous system, be more mindful and present, and give you a sense of purpose. It will make you more resilient and adaptable, enabling you to handle challenges and obstacles with ease. When you face difficulties, you can always return to your purpose and vision, knowing where you’re headed. By building strength, discipline, and presence each morning, you’ll find yourself moving deeper into a state of wholeness.

To make this practical, you simply need to sit down and design a morning routine around these three points: waking up the body, quieting the mind and emotions, and finding presence. Then, set the tone for your day by ensuring you have clarity of action and know what you’re doing. If you can wake up the body, quiet the mind, and plan your actions every single day—and enjoy the process—your life will change. It’s a simple practice, but it sets the foundation for everything else.

I’ve seen how a solid morning routine has transformed lives, including my own. It’s about designing the life you want to live and becoming the person you want to be. So, that’s my advice: sit down, build your morning routine, start doing it, and begin reaping the rewards as you grow day by day. It’s one of the most powerful things you can do.

If you’d like to discuss this further, you can book a call through my website. If you’re interested in coaching or anything like that, visit olianderson.co.uk/talk. There’s a link in the show notes if you want to click it. I also have a free guide on my website about transformational journeys, titled Ego, Shadow, Trust. It’s about awareness, acceptance, and action, and you can download it at olianderson.co.uk/egoshadowtrust.

Stay real out there, life is amazing. Keep it up, whatever you’re doing. Peace to you.

Discerning Real from Unreal & Finding Wholeness (Creative Status: Episode 96: Oli Anderson)

Creative Status is a podcast about using creativity as a vehicle for improving your life by deconstructing ego, integrating the shadow self, and designing and manifesting a real life through the power of TRUST.

Every episode explores how the creative process can help you GROW REAL by moving towards wholeness in yourself by making the unconscious conscious.

In this solo episode, we delve into the critical distinction between the REAL and the unreal, a concept that comes up frequently and passionately in these podcast episodes and in my (Oli Anderson) coaching and writing.

Wholeness vs. Fragmentation: Ultimately, the journey towards realness involves embracing wholeness and moving away from fragmentation. We explore how this boils down to the importance of understanding our deep connection to ourselves, others, and life itself.

Understanding Viveka: We explore how this aligns with the ancient yogic concept of Viveka, which is the discernment between the real and the unreal. This helps us to understand some of the universal principles that guide human experience and that we can align ourselves with to live a REAL life.

Life as a Lesson: With the right perspective, every experience in life is an opportunity to learn and discern the real from the unreal. By focusing on the real, we can grow, flow, and ultimately lead a more authentic life. Seeing things in this way makes us more resilient and allows us to TRUST in the deepest possible way.

Creative Status: Real vs. Unreal

Join me as we explore the fundamental principles of realness and how to apply them to your life. This episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking to move from fragmentation to wholeness and live a more authentic existence by tapping into their realness.

Stay real out there,

Oli Anderson (⁠⁠www.olianderson.co.uk⁠⁠)

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Show Transcript: Discerning Real from Unreal & Finding Wholeness

This is a podcast about understanding how to be more real

Oh, hi there. Oli Anderson here. You’re listening to Creative Status, a podcast about understanding how to be more real, more human, and how to cultivate a sense of unconditional self-acceptance. This will allow you to have better relationships with other people and with life itself. Ultimately, it’s about accepting things as they are and removing resistance from your life. When you do that, you experience less friction, frustration, and misery.

This is a solo episode, which means it’s just going to be me rambling about some kind of philosophical, psychological, or maybe even spiritual topic. Before we get into that, if you don’t know, my name is Oli Anderson. I’m a transformational coach focused on realness. Realness is an idea I’ve been discussing for quite a long time—maybe even ten years.

The main source of my thoughts on this topic is my book Personal Revolutions: Shortcuts to Realness and Shadow Freedom from Bullshit in an Unreal World. I also have a new book coming out in the next few months about trust—learning to trust life and trust ourselves.

Real versus Unreal is one of the most important things to be able to distinguish

Today’s episode, as I mentioned, is a solo one, and I’m not planning to make it long—I’ll try not to, anyway. I want to talk a bit about how we can distinguish the real from the unreal. This is something I discuss nearly every day, whether I’m recording content for this podcast or for YouTube, or when I’m working with clients in my coaching practice. Understanding the difference between the real and the unreal is one of the most important skills for living a good life—a life where we’re emotionally healthy, have goals that inspire us, and keep us moving forward, growing, and evolving. It’s about having a mindset that doesn’t attack us or hold us back, and it all comes down to real versus unreal.

In our postmodern society, many people believe there isn’t anything truly real, thinking everything is just a matter of interpretation. This can cause confusion, especially when someone like me is on the internet saying, “This is real, that’s not real—figure out the real stuff and everything will be fine.” So, I want to dive into some fundamental but simple principles that you can apply in your own life to make sense of this. I’m also going to touch on some ancient ways of understanding this concept.

I’ve been doing my yoga teacher training recently, and I came across a concept called Viveka, which is all about discerning the real from the unreal. The word Viveka literally means discernment of the real versus unreal. For me, that was a “wow” moment when I read it, because it’s something I’ve been talking about for ages. But, like with many things, the yogis figured this out thousands of years ago. I find it really interesting because it’s a reminder that there are universal principles that apply to all human beings, regardless of when or where we were born. These universal truths aren’t going anywhere, and if we can understand them, work with them, and build our lives around them, life becomes amazing.

In this episode, I want to give you three key points—three takeaways that you can start using as a kind of barometer to measure whether you’re being real or not. If you find yourself getting caught up in the unreal, these points will help you shift your focus so that you can direct your time, energy, and attention to the real things that matter and watch them grow. Ultimately, that’s what this is all about. If you focus on the unreal aspects of your life, your life will continue to be unreal. But if you make some simple shifts and focus on the real, then things will start to get much more real. What we give our time, energy, and attention to grows, so you might as well focus on the real stuff to live a real life.

Everything comes down to wholeness versus fragmentation.

Let’s dive right into these three points so we’re not here all day. The first point I want to make is something you’ve probably heard me say a billion times before, whether you’ve been listening to this podcast, or you’ve read or watched my content. Ultimately, everything comes down to wholeness versus fragmentation.

When I talk about being real, I’m talking about being on the path toward embracing and going deeper into our own wholeness. Wholeness means being deeply connected to who we really are, beyond the ego and our conceptual understanding of ourselves. It’s about embracing ourselves at a fundamental level, as living beings. It also means understanding our connection to other people and recognizing the universal experiences we all share—whether it’s facing mortality, dealing with cause and effect, aging, working through emotional issues, dissolving shame, or coming to terms with trauma. These shared experiences connect us to everyone else. We often focus on differences, but it’s our similarities that make us real and human. This is because we’re all on this path toward wholeness.

Understanding ourselves, understanding others, and ultimately understanding our connection to life itself are key. We tend to filter everything through our perception and interpretations of what we perceive, which I refer to as “the veiled.” It’s like a double-barrelled barrier between ourselves and life. First, we perceive things in a limited way because we’re in these fragmented bodies—an example I often give is that you can’t see behind you because you don’t have eyes in the back of your head. Once we perceive things in a fragmented way, we then interpret them in a fragmented way as well, due to our emotional baggage, our need to avoid or resist certain aspects of life, and the things we want to believe to protect ourselves from reality. This creates two levels of fragmentation between us and life.

Most of us run around thinking that we are these fragments, and this is where problems arise. We go out into the world treating unreal things as though they are real. And once again, it comes back to the concept of Viveka, which is about discerning when we’re truly in the flow of life—when we’re experiencing life, growing, evolving, and moving with wholeness—versus when we’re holding back due to our attachment to the way we perceive and interpret life. This is ultimately the difference between wholeness and fragmentation.

Life behind the Veiled Veil

There are three key sub-points I want to make that can help you understand and discern the real from the unreal in the way we’ve been discussing. I’ll go over these quickly.

The first point is about the nature of concepts. When we’re caught up in the “veiled” state—the unreal way of perceiving and interpreting life—we experience everything conceptually. We often mistake concepts for the truth, but in reality, concepts are merely signposts either pointing toward or away from the truth. Some concepts are more real than others, but none of them are completely real. For example, consider the concepts of a unicorn versus a chair. Both are concepts, but the concept of a unicorn points away from reality, while the concept of a chair points toward it, since objects we label as chairs exist in the world. If you perceive and interpret everything at a purely conceptual level, you’re living in the unreal because real life is an experience. That doesn’t mean that everything we experience is real, as we often filter experiences through the ego, coloring them with interpretations that serve our attachment to fragmentation. But to keep it simple, if you’re living at a conceptual level, you’re likely being unreal. By discerning the difference between the conceptual and the experiential, you can better identify the unreal and start focusing on what’s real.

The second point is the illusion of stasis. When we’re caught up in the ego—essentially buying into fragmentation and the “veiled” state—we imagine that we are static and unchanging. The ego needs us to remain static so we don’t have to grow or embrace new experiences that could bring us closer to the truth, exposing the futility of the ego and our attachment to it. The illusion of stasis is what prevents us from having a growth mindset. In reality, life is constantly changing because we experience it through time, space, and causality, always moving forward. However, if we cling to static concepts—whether about ourselves, the world, or reality—we resist change because we want life to conform to these fixed ideas. This resistance keeps us in a state of opposition rather than acceptance, which is about flow. Understanding that the illusion of stasis is unreal helps you become more discerning between the real and unreal. Once again, it comes down to fragmentation versus wholeness. Wholeness keeps moving and evolving, while the ego tries to keep things static.

The final point is what I call the illusion of separation. This, too, stems from how we interpret life through the “veiled” state, causing us to fragment what is inherently whole. Real life is interconnected—everything is part of an unfolding wholeness. As life evolves, we are drawn into more wholeness, letting go of unreal things that obscure our vision of this truth. However, when we identify ourselves as isolated entities within time, space, and causality, disconnected from everything else to maintain the illusion of the ego, we fall into the illusion of separation. In truth, nothing is separate; it’s all one vast system within systems, all interacting with itself. Our perspective from behind the “veiled” state makes us feel separate and static, leading us to believe we are just physical entities moving through life in isolation.

All of these points—concepts, stasis, and separation—are manifestations of fragmentation versus wholeness. By understanding this, and recognizing how it shows up in your life, you’ll see that discerning the real from the unreal ultimately comes back to the same idea: it’s all about wholeness versus fragmentation.

Wholeness and fragmentation in yogic philosophy

So, that’s the first point I want you to take away from this episode: everything ultimately boils down to wholeness versus fragmentation. Wholeness is real, and fragmentation is unreal. We often cling to fragmentation because of our ego and our desire to stay in our comfort zone, resisting growth and change.

The second takeaway is the concept of Viveka that I’ve already shared. In yogic philosophy, Viveka refers to the discernment between the real and the unreal. If you want to be liberated from the things that hold you down and lock you into the illusion of duality, the “veiled” state, and all the challenges that come with it, you need to cultivate this discernment.

In yogic philosophy, this discernment shows up in two ways. First, it’s about distinguishing between ultimate reality, known as Brahman, and illusion, known as Maya. If you can learn to discern what’s truly real—recognizing that everything is interconnected in wholeness—and separate that from the illusion of duality, you can step into your own power. You’ll understand that even though you experience life in a personal, singular way, you can go through a process of letting go of fragmentation and align your consciousness with universal consciousness, or Brahman.

This concept ties back to the idea that everything boils down to wholeness versus fragmentation. Maya, or the illusion of duality, is the idea that things are disconnected and that everything has an opposite—good and bad, up and down, good and evil, and so on. When we perceive life through this veil of Maya, we create an identity to fit into that dualistic world. I like to describe it as being asleep, dreaming, and your ego or identity is the character you play in that dream. It’s not the real you; it’s just a role you’re playing because of the dualistic world you find yourself in.

The main problem with buying into this illusion is that it disconnects you from the truth. When you’re disconnected from the truth, you start to feel things like shame, emptiness, restlessness, and the sense that there’s something more. These feelings are valid, but we often misinterpret them, thinking we need more things within the dream or to be a different version of ourselves—essentially, an extension of the character we’re playing—instead of tapping into who we truly are. This adds layers of complexity to our ego.

The feelings of emptiness and restlessness are signals that there are parts of yourself that need to be reawakened so you can escape from the dream. This aligns with what the yogis and I have been saying about wholeness and fragmentation: you need to wake up to the fact that you’re often perceiving unreal things because you’re treating fragments as the whole, and the illusion as the real thing. Once you understand this, you can start waking up and bringing your true self to the surface, rather than just creating a version of yourself to fit into the dualistic world.

Another way the yogis explain this is through the Yoga Sutras by Patanjali, where Viveka is described as the ability to distinguish between pure consciousness, known as Purusha, and nature or the material world, known as Prakriti. These two—nature and consciousness—can work together, and it’s not that nature is evil or anything like that. In fact, I believe we should attune to our nature as much as possible. But, again, it comes down to wholeness versus fragmentation. Nature is composed of fragments, but behind it lies pure consciousness, which is wholeness, truth, or God—whatever term you prefer.

If you can understand this and discern between nature and pure consciousness, you can free yourself from being dragged into the illusions of the material world. On a practical level, this involves managing our instincts, mastering our senses, and understanding the limitations of our perceptions. You can experience pure consciousness through practices like meditation or engaging in creative processes that strip away layers of fragmentation, such as limiting beliefs, old patterns, and the stories we tell ourselves.

This process often requires effort and pushing yourself to the edge, where your ego meets reality. But if you can do this, you’ll free yourself from taking everything at face value and start to realize that there’s much more to life than what we see on the physical level. This doesn’t necessarily mean you have to believe in a conscious universe or anything like that, but it does mean you should recognize that there are forces greater than yourself, even if those forces are just chaos bringing unexpected challenges into your life.

The key takeaway is that meditation is one of the best ways to begin this journey. That’s what the Yoga Sutras recommend, and Patanjali certainly knew more than I do, so I’d suggest following his advice and start meditating.

Everything in life is a lesson in discerning the real from the unreal

The final takeaway I want to leave you with in this episode is that everything—literally everything that happens to us or that we make happen—is a lesson in discerning the real from the unreal. As we grow older and accumulate life experiences, the ultimate lesson we learn is to distinguish what is true from what is untrue, what is real from what is unreal.

Every experience, no matter how small, teaches us to discern whether we are moving towards wholeness or clinging to fragments. When you go through a bad experience, it’s like a baptism by fire. You can’t lose anything real, so these difficult moments are life’s way of helping you shed the unreal, fragmented things you were holding onto that prevented you from seeing the real, valuable parts of your life that were already there.

This is the final lesson for me: it all comes down to accepting the truth about life, which includes the truth about ourselves, the truth about others, and the truth about life itself—that everything is ultimately connected. As we navigate life and become better at discerning the real from the unreal, it does get a little easier. That doesn’t mean we won’t face challenges or be pushed into deeper understanding, but it does mean that we’ll have a stronger foundation because we’re no longer filtering everything through that veiled perception of limited understanding and the identity we’ve created in the dream world of illusions and duality.

Ultimately, learning to discern the real from the unreal is about embracing the truth of wholeness and letting go of the concepts we cling to in order to maintain the illusion that we can control life with the fragmented bits of understanding we’ve gathered. Often, these very fragments are what keep us from fully experiencing life.

This podcast was about learning to discern the real from the unreal

So, that wraps up this podcast on learning to discern the real from the unreal. We covered three main points. First, we talked about the concept of wholeness versus fragmentation. This involves discerning the conceptual from the experiential, recognizing the illusion of stasis, and catching yourself when you’re resisting growth, because life is always urging you to evolve. We also discussed the illusion of separation, the mistaken belief that you’re an isolated entity disconnected from the rest of life.

Second, we delved into the concept of Viveka, which is about understanding whether you’re aligned with universal truth or simply clinging to the fragmented, physical world. When you buy into the illusion of duality, you end up playing a character in a dream rather than living in your true self.

The third takeaway is that, no matter what happens in life, we’re always learning to discern the real from the unreal. When you understand this as a constant life lesson, it becomes easier to navigate challenges. You can remind yourself that every experience is just another lesson in learning to separate truth from illusion. The more you practice this discernment, the more you can focus on what truly matters, continue growing, and move forward in life.

If you’re looking for a practical exercise to apply these ideas, start with a simple journal prompt. Reflect on areas in your life where you feel stuck or where you might be holding yourself back. Consider how these might be tied to the unreal concepts we’ve discussed—whether it’s the illusion of separation, a static self-image, or being caught up in abstract concepts instead of truly experiencing life and relationships.

Also, consider starting a meditation practice or trying yoga if you haven’t already. Yoga, in particular, has different asanas (poses) that are accessible to everyone and can help deepen your presence. I recently uploaded a 75-minute yoga flow to YouTube—a Vinyasa to Yin practice that’s designed to help you connect deeply with yourself. I’ll put a link in the episode description.

Ultimately, the key is to identify where you might be living in unreality and shift your focus to what’s real. This change in focus can transform your life. If you want to explore this further and work on applying these principles in your own life, feel free to book a call through my website at olianderson.co.uk. I’ve seen people make amazing progress when they start focusing on the real and taking authentic action.

I hope this episode has given you some clarity and inspiration. Go out there, stay real, and I’ll see you next time. Thanks for listening. Peace to you!

From Brokenness to Oneness (Creative Status: Episode 95: Fergus MacClure)

Creative Status is a podcast about using creativity as a vehicle for improving your life by deconstructing ego, integrating the shadow self, and designing and manifesting a real life.

Every episode explores how the creative process can help you GROW REAL by moving towards wholeness in yourself by making the unconscious conscious.

In this episode, we explore the transformative journey from brokenness to oneness with life transformation specialist Fergus MacClure, who introduces us to his groundbreaking system, the Pyramid of Oneness.

Understanding the Pyramid of Oneness: Fergus defines the Pyramid of Oneness as a comprehensive framework designed to guide individuals from a fragmented, broken state to a complete sense of self in oneness.

Recognising Patterns of Brokenness: Fergus explains that most people operate without a clear life plan, which leads to insecurity and frustration. By recognizing these patterns, we can begin to move towards a more secure and directed life.

Steps to Oneness: Fergus outlines the transformative steps in the Pyramid of Oneness: securing essential life areas, finding inspiration, setting clear directions, executing plans, achieving flow, producing abundance, and ultimately experiencing fusion—a state of complete alignment with oneself and the world. Each step builds on the previous one, creating a solid foundation for personal growth.

Creative Status: From Brokenness to Wholeness Join us in this powerful episode as we explore the Pyramid of Oneness and its role in personal transformation. This episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking to move from fragmentation to a more unified and authentic existence.

Tune in to discover how you can unlock your true potential and experience a deeper sense of oneness in your life.

Stay real out there,

Oli Anderson (⁠www.olianderson.co.uk⁠)

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𝐂𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐒𝐭𝐚𝐭𝐮𝐬 𝐢𝐬 𝐚 𝐩𝐨𝐝𝐜𝐚𝐬𝐭 𝐚𝐛𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐮𝐬𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐜𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐯𝐢𝐭𝐲 𝐚𝐬 𝐚 𝐯𝐞𝐡𝐢𝐜𝐥𝐞 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐢𝐦𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐯𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐥𝐢𝐟𝐞 𝐛𝐲 𝐝𝐞𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐭𝐫𝐮𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐞𝐠𝐨, 𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐠𝐫𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐬𝐡𝐚𝐝𝐨𝐰 𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟, 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐝𝐞𝐬𝐢𝐠𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐦𝐚𝐧𝐢𝐟𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐚 𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐥 𝐥𝐢𝐟𝐞.

𝐄𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐲 𝐞𝐩𝐢𝐬𝐨𝐝𝐞 𝐞𝐱𝐩𝐥𝐨𝐫𝐞𝐬 𝐡𝐨𝐰 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐜𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐜𝐞𝐬𝐬 𝐜𝐚𝐧 𝐡𝐞𝐥𝐩 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐆𝐑𝐎𝐖 𝐑𝐄𝐀𝐋 𝐛𝐲 𝐦𝐨𝐯𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐨𝐰𝐚𝐫𝐝𝐬 𝐰𝐡𝐨𝐥𝐞𝐧𝐞𝐬𝐬 𝐢𝐧 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟 𝐛𝐲 𝐦𝐚𝐤𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐮𝐧𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐜𝐢𝐨𝐮𝐬 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐜𝐢𝐨𝐮𝐬.

In this solo episode, we delve into the final step of the transformational process: Action.

Building on previous discussions about Awareness and Acceptance, we examine how taking inspired action can lead to meaningful change and a more authentic life.

𝐈𝐧𝐬𝐩𝐢𝐫𝐞𝐝 𝐀𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧:Discover how raising Awareness and cultivating Acceptance can lead to inspired action that stems from a place of wholeness.

This will help you to ensure your actions are not driven by fragmented parts of your ego but by a real connection to yourself.

𝐅𝐨𝐫𝐜𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐯𝐬. 𝐅𝐥𝐨𝐰𝐢𝐧𝐠: Learn about the difference between forcing life and flowing with it. We discuss how to achieve a state of flow by trusting yourself and life, and how to avoid the stress and friction that come from trying to control everything.

𝐄𝐟𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐄𝐟𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐭𝐥𝐞𝐬𝐬: Understand why initial effort is necessary to overcome old habits and outdated ways of thinking. The episode emphasises the importance of discipline and consistency in creating new habits that align with your true self, leading to an effortless flow state.

𝐂𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐒𝐭𝐚𝐭𝐮𝐬: 𝐓𝐚𝐤𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐑𝐞𝐚𝐥 𝐀𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧

Join us in this episode as we explore the power of real action in transforming your life. This episode is a call to take inspired, flowing, and ultimately effortless action towards becoming the most authentic version of yourself.

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Stay real out there,

Oli

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#94: Oli Anderson: Real Action & The Flow of Transformation (Show Transcript)

This podcast is about tapping into your creativity to become more real

Oh, hi there. Oli Anderson here. You’re listening to Creative Status, a podcast about tapping into your creativity and using it as a vehicle for becoming more real. Ultimately, if you’re new to the podcast, what we explore here are the universal truths that are the building blocks of the human experience. These truths can be tapped into and utilized to live the most authentic lives possible. Being real ultimately means connecting to ourselves, others, and life itself.

This is the third episode in a series of solo episodes I’ll be doing every other week, focusing on the underlying transformational process that we all need to tap into if we want to change anything in our lives. This process is what I use in my coaching practice and is the foundation of the podcast itself. Traditionally, it consists of three steps: awareness, acceptance, and action.

Awareness is ultimately about deconstructing the ego and examining how it blocks your awareness of the truth about life. This blockage occurs due to old conditioning, limiting beliefs, and assumptions that you’ve picked up and internalized, which aren’t necessarily true but dictate your behaviors. The more aware you become of these factors, the better you can understand the gap between who you really are and who you think you are. So, the first step is awareness, which I covered in the first of these solo episodes.

The second step is acceptance, which involves allowing the shadow self to reemerge and reappear in our lives. At the start of these transformational journeys, we often filter life through a false identity that we call the ego. This results in disowning and suppressing various parts of ourselves because the ego is often a response to underlying shame, guilt, and trauma. When we aren’t ready to face these emotions, we feel ashamed of who we are and hide behind the mask of the ego. Over time, we wear this mask so much that we think it’s who we are.

When we begin to raise our awareness and return to the path of truth and realness, the hidden parts of ourselves inevitably reemerge from the shadow self. This includes our hidden goals, intentions, values, and real beliefs, some of which we may not have been ready to face, such as the inevitability of death and the necessity of using the law of cause and effect to achieve our goals.

These two steps, awareness and acceptance, are crucial. If you don’t go through the process of raising awareness and cultivating self-acceptance, any goals you set or attempts to build your life will simply reflect the unreal relationship you have with yourself at the start of your transformational journey. This results in a case of “unreal in, unreal out.” In other words, if you input something unreal into your life—such as false assumptions and a distorted relationship with yourself—you will get something unreal out, leading to an existential void. You’ll feel an itch you need to scratch but won’t know how to because of inner dissociation and disconnection from your true self. Therefore, awareness and acceptance are essential steps before you start taking action.

Action is ultimately the only thing that will change your life

And action is what we’re going to focus on in this short episode today because action is ultimately the only thing that will change your life. If you want to transform or improve your life, action is what will take you there.

There are three main takeaways I want to give you in this episode. The first is that when you go through the process of raising awareness and cultivating acceptance, the action you take is more likely to be inspired action. Inspired action comes from a place of wholeness or realness. Before we raise awareness and cultivate acceptance, we experience more fragmentation within ourselves. Our relationship with ourselves is fragmented because we’re holding on to various concepts and the image of the ego we’ve created to protect ourselves from underlying emotions.

Long story short, this leads to us feeling fragmented, which is why most of the time, when people want to change their lives and embark on transformational paths, they feel that void—something needs to change. Most people who come to me for coaching have reached a breaking point. They’re at a stage where they think, “Something has to change in my life. I need help. I need to figure out what to do.” They’re feeling that void and typically going through the motions of the famous, often overused quote: “The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again, expecting different results.”

People keep taking action based on what their ego tells them to do, which only exacerbates and prolongs the problem. This is why raising awareness and cultivating acceptance are necessary steps before taking action.

First takeaway is that inspired action comes from a place of wholeness

So, the first takeaway is about inspired action coming from a place of wholeness. Next, I want to talk about the difference between forcing and flowing. In the earlier stages of these transformational journeys, the reason we’re not getting the results we want or feeling the way we want is often because we’re forcing life through the actions we take. We try to conform to the identity we’ve created due to that lack of awareness. When we live from that place in the early stages, we constantly stress ourselves out, adding friction, frustration, and misery that we don’t need or deserve. This happens because we can’t let go, surrender, and realize that even when we take action, we’re not totally in control of everything.

The realist approach is to avoid forcing things and instead reach a point of flow. This ultimately comes down to knowing that we can do our best and accept the rest. It’s about learning to trust ourselves to do what we need to do and trusting life to fill in the blanks when things out of our control have to be left to fate, destiny, the world, or even just time passing by until the next opportunity arises, and then we can trust ourselves to seize it. So, I want to discuss the concept of forcing versus flowing.

Finally, I want to talk about how, even though the ultimate goal is to get into a flow state where we navigate life by responding to events based on our vision and where we want to go, it does take effort until that becomes effortless. It will require a bit of force until we reach that flow point. In those early stages, when we’re fragmented, we have to force ourselves to overcome outdated ways of thinking. We must force ourselves to change habitual ways of identifying with the ego, which is ultimately a habit. We need to bring new habits into our lives that will allow us to let go of the structures that are holding us back.

Ultimately, what we’re going to talk about is how inspired action comes from a place of wholeness. However, to get to that place of wholeness, we must take actions that go against how we’re used to identifying, which will feel forceful at first. But by staying disciplined, consistent, and focused, this will eventually become effortless, allowing us to flow with life and get the results we want.

Before we break down these three takeaways, there is a framework for action that can help you in general, no matter what you’re doing. These takeaways fit within this framework. Whatever you’re trying to do, you can use this framework to achieve good results. I’ve talked about it before, but to summarize, it goes: vision, goals, and habits.

For anything you want to achieve in your life, you need to understand the vision first. To create the vision, be as audacious as possible. Most people hold themselves back from even creating the vision or moving forward because of limited, fragmented beliefs at the start of their transformational journeys. If you filter your vision through all the assumptions and identity issues of that early stage, you’ll ultimately incorporate those flawed assumptions into the vision. Start by asking yourself: what would you want for yourself if there were no limits? What would you do if you had unlimited time and money? Once you’ve created that vision, you can then start to assess its realism. But initially, the important thing is to figure out what you want.

When you’ve got that vision, you can then figure out the goals to take you there. Check out my free course, Personality Transplant, for help in figuring this stuff out at olianderson.co.uk/systemshock. But once you’ve figured out your vision, you then need to determine the goals that will get you there.

The goals are essentially the milestones that will lead you to your vision. For example, if part of your vision is writing a book, one of your goals will be getting it published, another goal will be creating the cover, and so on. You can reverse engineer or work backwards from your vision to set your goals. Once you’ve established your goals, you can then figure out the habits. Habits are the daily actions you need to take to achieve your goals. So, the framework is vision, goals, and habits.

If you design this framework correctly, the daily habits you invest in will compound and produce results. For example, if you’re writing a book, and you write 100 words a day, at the end of every week, you’ll have 700 words. Before you know it, you’ll have a whole book. Because these habits reflect the real vision you’re working towards, every day you’ll be stepping into the person you want to become, rather than being the version of yourself that’s stuck at the start of these transformational journeys, where you’re more fragmented. In other words, if the vision, goals, and habits are real, you’ll become more real every day.

This framework is crucial for understanding how to get results in life and take real, inspired action. Now, we’ll break down these three takeaways, but keep this framework in mind as we go through them. Without the vision, goals, and habits, all the other stuff is redundant because you won’t be moving forward in a consistent way.

We talked about inspired action coming from a place of wholeness

So, with that being said, let’s go over these three takeaways, which I want you to take away from this episode.

The first takeaway is about inspired action coming from a place of wholeness. The second one is about the concept of force versus flow. The third is the transition from effort to effortless, or the kind of “good force” that will tip us over the edge into living in a flowing manner.

Inspired Action

When it comes to inspired action, it ultimately comes down to creating a vision for ourselves. When we are in the process of uncovering that vision, we must ensure that we aren’t filtering it through self-limiting beliefs, the ego, societal conditioning, or outdated ideas from our past, such as what society, our parents, or teachers said we should do. These are all ways of living from the outside in. What we want is a vision that comes from the inside out. There is something within you waiting to be expressed in the world. If you haven’t gone through the process of awareness and acceptance, then that thing will remain hidden in the shadow self, screaming for your attention while you distract yourself from listening to it.

One of the most effective ways to reach a point of inspired action is to initially slow down. If you’re constantly busy and running around, even living a life of quiet desperation, you need to take time out from your current routine, which is based on old, outdated programming. You need to get into your body and out of your head. When we distract ourselves, we’re often coming from a very cerebral, cognitive, and conceptual place. We need to start tapping into our experience.

Force vs. Flow

The second takeaway is about the difference between forcing and flowing. In the earlier stages of transformational journeys, we often force our actions to conform to our created identity due to a lack of awareness. This causes stress, friction, and frustration. The realist approach is to avoid forcing things and instead reach a point of flow. This involves doing our best and accepting the rest, trusting ourselves to take necessary actions while also trusting life to fill in the blanks when things are out of our control.

Effort to Effortless

The third takeaway is about the transition from effort to effortless. Even though the ultimate goal is to reach a flow state where we navigate life by responding to events based on our vision, it does require effort until it becomes effortless. Initially, we must force ourselves to overcome outdated ways of thinking and change habitual ways of identifying with the ego. The ego is a habit, and we need to bring new habits into our lives that will allow us to let go of restrictive structures.

One way to slow down and start tapping into our experience is through practices like Yin yoga. Yin yoga forces you to slow down by holding poses for three to five minutes. This practice helps you get into your body and out of your head, aiding in the process of uncovering your vision and taking inspired action. In a past episode with Vera, we discussed the benefits of Yin yoga, which has been powerful for me personally as it forces me to slow down and connect with myself.

Framework for Action

Remember the framework of vision, goals, and habits. The vision should be audacious and not filtered through limiting beliefs. Once you have the vision, set goals as milestones to achieve it. Then, establish daily habits that will lead you to those goals. If you design this framework correctly, the habits you invest in daily will compound, leading to significant results. For example, writing 100 words a day can eventually lead to a completed book. These habits will help you step into the person you want to become, making you more real every day. Without this framework, moving forward in a consistent way is challenging.

You’re just there with your own experience of yourself. You can’t run away. This brings to mind a quote by Blaise Pascal, or Pascale—I’m not sure of the exact spelling. Anyway, he said that most problems in life would be solved if people could just spend time in solitude or alone in a room. That’s me paraphrasing and probably butchering the quote. Apologies to Blaise, but the point is: if you slow down, you’ll start getting the answers you need. These answers will prompt you in the direction you need to move.

If you’re in the earlier stages of awareness and acceptance, start by examining your identity. Ask yourself why you want certain things to be true, why you want to believe certain things. What are you hiding from yourself? What is trying to emerge from the shadow self? There’s likely some creative goal or aspect of the unconscious trying to become conscious. You can tap into this through journaling, meditation, or even just going for a walk—getting out of your head and into your body. This process will help you understand what your vision for your life looks like.

The trap is thinking the vision is too serious, leading to overthinking. What I’m saying is, don’t overthink it. Connect to yourself and allow your intuition to guide you. Intuition means you’ve connected to wholeness, a real connection to yourself that will show you the way forward. By doing this, you’ll start to sense what your vision is like. Initially, it may be broad and nebulous. When I coach people, we often start with a vague inkling of what’s emerging. That’s all you need from slowing down and finding stillness—a broad, vague picture forming in your mind.

Then, you can bring in the left brain to make it more specific. Starting with stillness and nebulousness gives you something real because you’re drawing it from the universal conscious, or at the very least, the unconscious mind. Making it conscious allows you to do something with it.

You can only achieve this by going through awareness, stepping back from your ego, and acceptance, unconditionally accepting whatever you find. Your true vision might scare you because it’s so different from your current path, influenced by social conditioning and other factors. But you’ll know it’s real because, despite the fear, it will excite and motivate you. You’ll want to make that vision clearer, which is when you bring in the habits and goals.

Keep checking in with yourself to see if you’re forcing life or flowing

Once you’ve reached that point, you can start thinking about the second takeaway from this episode: keep checking in with yourself to see if you’re forcing life or if you’re flowing with it. A caveat here is that in the early stages, a bit of effort will be required. This doesn’t necessarily mean you’re forcing things; it means you’re forcing yourself to change the way you relate to yourself and how you interact with life. We’ll get into that in a second, but for now, the second takeaway is simple. We need to keep checking in with ourselves to see if we’re forcing or flowing.

Forcing means constantly feeling stressed and still feeling that void. We may have a real vision for our lives, but we still feel restless and are constantly trying to make things conform to our ways. Are we constantly reacting to life instead of responding to it? It’s ultimately about the energetic state we find ourselves in. Forcing comes down to friction and stress. If you feel too much friction and stress, odds are you’ve entered what is called the panic zone in coaching.

In coaching, there are three levels: the comfort zone, the stretch zone, and the panic zone. The comfort zone is familiar to us all. The stretch zone is where we really flow, where the ego meets reality and we find our edge. In this sweet spot, we feel alive due to a kind of creative tension in our lives instead of unhealthy tension. We meet life on its own terms while still navigating it. The panic zone is where you’ve gone too far beyond your edge, and you start to panic. Your nervous system kicks in, and you feel stressed. This almost always indicates you still have unreal beliefs.

For example, you might have become outcome-dependent. You’re so attached to the results of the vision you’ve created that you think your self-worth and your capacity to accept yourself as a human being depend on those results. As soon as you start focusing on the results more than the process of living life and being in the flow of moving from where you are now to where you want to go, you take yourself out of reality. You end up living according to some imagined future and some imaginary worth that it will bestow upon you.

The secret to maintaining equanimity amidst the flow as you move forward is to detach from the result and focus on the process. Once you know the result, that’s it. Keep your eye on it, obviously, but focus on the process. If you don’t, you’ll feel like you’re forcing things because you’ve become outcome-dependent, meaning your identity is still invested in the result, which makes it unreal. As you move towards your vision, your identity will change. You’ll let go of the unreal fragmentation you had at the start of your transformational journey and become more whole. This means letting go of unreal beliefs and unlearning things that make you feel like you need to force life in the first place.

Third takeaway from this episode is that getting to flow with life takes effort

So all of this brings us to the third takeaway from this episode, which is that even though we aim to flow with life and navigate it according to the process itself—living authentically rather than through ego filters or attachment to results—initially, it will require some force to reach that flow state. However, to avoid confusion, let’s call it putting in effort until it becomes effortless.

At the beginning of this journey, we carry various assumptions and ideas embedded in our unconscious mind, driving our behavior and identity. As we move from point A to point B towards our vision, we are also reconfiguring our unconscious relationship with ourselves. To keep it simple, at the start of the journey, people are fragmented, living according to old conditioning and emotional patterns. Most people I’ve worked with begin with unconscious fear—fear of pursuing their desires, fear of moving forward, fear of failure, fear of losing their identity, and a lack of trust in themselves and life. These unconscious fears affect their conscious relationship with themselves.

As we progress, it takes effort to overcome these unconscious habits, which are essentially habitual ways of thinking, doing things, and identifying. This ties back to the overused quote about insanity: doing the same thing repeatedly and expecting different results. To make a change, we must establish new habits at every level, both externally and internally, to transform our lives from the inside out and become the person we want to be. This is why effort is necessary to reach a state of effortlessness.

Initially, being stuck requires no effort—it’s simply the result of the scripts and programs running in our unconscious minds, affecting everything we do. Achieving effortless success necessitates effort to confront and challenge our assumptions about ourselves, to scrutinize our thoughts and their impact, and to ensure they reflect the truth. All of these actions involve making an effort to change our relationship with ourselves.

If you can do that, eventually reaching a state of effortless flow becomes possible. By then, all those unconscious habits and ideas you carried unknowingly will have been replaced with ones aligned with the new version of you and your vision. At this point, you will consistently take real action in a flow state, unburdened by unconscious fears, and you will have developed trust.

Real action is about trust—trusting yourself to do your best and handle whatever comes your way as you venture into the unknown. Moving towards your vision means embracing uncertainty, but also trusting life. This means you don’t need to control everything and, thus, stop forcing things. You won’t need life to conform to your ego’s image of yourself. Instead, you trust life to bring you the opportunities you need because you know you can learn from every experience, using each challenge as a springboard towards your ultimate vision.

And so, if you can live this way—putting effort into changing your unconscious relationship with yourself and how you identify, to bring forth whatever vision is trying to emerge, and then breaking it down into the goals and habits that will get you there—you will ultimately transform your life. You will become the person you want to become, which is always the realest version of you, because you will be letting go of all the unreal things that have been causing you to take unreal actions.

I hope this helps you understand that action truly is the game changer. However, you need to ensure that the actions you are taking are real. This means they must come from a place of wholeness, allowing you to enter a state of flow. You should avoid stressing yourself out, feeling friction, frustration, and misery due to being overly identified with or attached to the results. You must also recognize that you will have to put in some effort until it becomes effortless.

Use journaling to identify what values are embodied in your life

If you’re looking for a practical starting point based on what we’ve discussed in this episode, I recommend sitting down and journaling. Start by reflecting on times in your life when you’ve felt that sense of wholeness. Maybe it was while climbing a mountain or just having fun with friends—whatever those moments were for you. Once you’ve identified those times, examine the values that were embodied in them. For example, in my own life, I often felt most alive and connected to wholeness when I was out in nature or climbing a mountain. From these experiences, I can identify values like nature, freedom, and health.

The more values you can unpack from these moments, the better. If you understand what values resonate with you, you can create a vision for your future that aligns with those values. For instance, if you value nature, health, and freedom, there are numerous ways to integrate these values into your life. This will give you a direction to move towards. From there, break it down into goals and habits, and you’ll start flowing with life, becoming the version of yourself you aspire to be.

I hope this has been helpful. If you want to discuss any of this further or need help unpacking your own vision, I offer free calls which you can book on my website at olianderson.co.uk/talk. There’s also a free course available, which includes a workbook and dives deep into many of the topics we covered today. You can access it at olianderson.co.uk/systemshock. This course is designed around the principles of awareness, acceptance, and action.

I really hope this helps you gain clarity on whether you’re moving in a real direction or an unreal one. Remember, it all comes down to action, but keep raising your awareness and working towards unconditional self-acceptance. Thanks for listening. Peace to you. Bye.

From Eco to Ego & The Power of Real Choice (Creative Status #93: Lindsey Marie Coffey)

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Every episode explores how the creative process can help you GROW REAL by moving towards wholeness in yourself by making the unconscious conscious.

In this episode, we dive deep into the concept of eco-consciousness with Lindsey Marie Coffey, an environmental activist and model. Lindsey shares her insights on how our relationship with ourselves influences our relationship with the planet and offers practical steps to cultivate eco-consciousness in our daily lives.

Understanding Eco-Consciousness: Lindsey defines eco-consciousness as the awareness of our surrounding environments and the broader impact of our actions on nature. She emphasises the importance of recognising our interdependence with the planet and making mindful choices to support environmental sustainability.

Consumerism and Mindfulness: Explore the psychological aspects of consumerism and how retail therapy often masks deeper emotional insecurities. Lindsey discusses the importance of making mindful purchases that align with ethical and sustainable values, thereby creating a positive impact on the environment.

Practical Steps for Change: Discover actionable steps to foster eco-consciousness, from supporting ethical brands to engaging in local and national politics. Lindsey highlights the power of individual actions and collective efforts in driving significant environmental change.

Creative Status: Cultivating Eco-Consciousness

Join us in this enlightening conversation as we explore the transformative power of eco-consciousness and its role in creating a more sustainable and equitable world. This episode is a call to reconnect with nature, make mindful choices, and realise the profound impact of our individual actions.

Stay real out there,

Oli

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Eco Branders: ⁠http://www.ecobranders.com⁠

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Trucking, Transformation, & Trust (Creative Status: Episode 91: Stanford Smith)

Creative Status is a podcast about using creativity as a vehicle for improving your life by deconstructing ego, integrating the shadow self, and designing and manifesting a real life.

Every episode explores how the creative process can help you GROW REAL by moving towards wholeness in yourself by making the unconscious conscious.

In this episode, we dive deep into the life and experiences of Stanford Smith, a professional truck driver and host of the Big Diesel Fit Show.

Stanford shares his unique perspective on life, gleaned from over two decades and two million miles on the open highway, offering profound insights into the human condition.

The Truck Driver’s Journey: Explore how the seemingly mundane task of truck driving can be a metaphor for life. Discover the challenges and lessons that come with a lifestyle focused on constant movement and goal-chasing.

The Hidden Cost of Freedom: Stanford discusses the dual nature of freedom, highlighting the balance between independence and the need for stability and connection. Learn about the personal sacrifices made and the mental toll of long-haul trucking.

Facing Fear and Embracing Solitude: Delve into the transformative power of facing primal fears and embracing solitude. Stanford shares how his time on the road helped him confront and overcome deep-seated fears, leading to personal growth and resilience.

Control vs. Human Nature: Understand the conflict between the increasing control exerted by technology in the trucking industry and the inherent human need for freedom and autonomy. Discover how this dynamic mirrors broader societal trends.

Creative Status: Lessons from the Open Road

Join us as we uncover the profound lessons that can be learned from a life on the road, exploring themes of fear, freedom, and the human spirit.

This episode is a call to embrace life’s journey, face your fears, and find balance in the pursuit of personal and professional goals.

Stay real out there,

Oli

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