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Psychology - Page 2

Posts about psychology that help you to better understand yourself, the world, and reality to live a more REAL life.

The Myth of Love Hurts

The Myth of Love Hurts: Why Real Love Is a Path Back to Wholeness & Not a Punch in the Face

Integration/Life Philosophy/Mental Health/Mindset/Nervous System/Psychology/Relationships/Shadow Life

"Love hurts" is a myth and this article will help you understand why.

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Integrating Anger

Integrating Anger: Your Anger Will Save You

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How to integrate your anger and use it as rocket fuel for living your real life.

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The Flow State

The Flow State: Sustaining Realness Beyond the Void

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An exploration of the flow state and how to stay in it as much as possible.

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Trauma or intuition?

Trauma or Intuition?: How to Tell the Difference and Stop Getting Stuck

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Sometimes, what you think is your 'intuition' is just your trauma.

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Regulation first

Regulation First: Creating Your Life From a Place of Regulation

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The benefits of learning nervous system regulation before you take action.

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Listen to Yourself

Listen to Yourself: How to Tap into The Signal Instead of the Noise

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Learning How to Listen to Yourself So You Can Take Real Action There comes a point in almost every life where we

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Commitment Issues

Commitment Issues: Why You Struggle with Commitment

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You Don’t Have Commitment Issues – You Have Reality Issues Commitment has a pretty bad reputation which is why the people often

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NPC Spirituality

NPC Spirituality: The Ego Disguised as ‘Spirituality’

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An article about NPC Spirituality - spirituality for those still acting out their programming.

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Your life is NOT a movie - give up the Hollywood endings

Hollywood Endings: Your Life Is NOT a Movie

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Your Hollywood Ending Fairytale Isn’t Coming (…and That’s A Good Thing). Many of us grow up with a subtle expectation that life

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Isolated in Life

The Gift of Isolation: How Loneliness Becomes a Path to Wholeness

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Why you became isolated in life and how to use it to grow real.

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Oli Anderson, Transformational Coach for Realness

Oli Anderson

Hi, I'm Oli Anderson, a Transformational Coach and author currently based near Skipton in the UK but helping people internationally by working with them closely online.

I help people to improve their relationships with themselves so they can be more REAL, more CREATIVE, and design better lives and businesses for themselves. If you're a creative person who is struggling to make the kind of progress you know you could be making then get in touch with me.

I'm also the author of 'Personal Revolutions: A Short Course in Realness' and 'Shadow Life: Freedom from BS in an Unreal World' which both explore how our shame, guilt, and/or trauma cause us to create identity problems that can disrupt and distort our whole lives if we're not careful.

This website will help you to start figuring out your own 'stuff' so you can start moving forward in life and stop holding yourself back with conditioned BS.

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  • Coaching
    • The Creative Performance Transformation Lab
    • One-on-One Coaching
  • Books
    • Trust: A Manual for Becoming the Void, Building Flow, and Finding PEACE
    • Personal Revolutions: ASCIR
    • Shadow Life: Freedom from BS in an Unreal World
    • The Flow Builder Journal
    • Synchronesia: A Depressing Existential Novel
  • The Realness (Blog)
    • New Posts
    • Creativity
    • Health
    • Life Philosophy
    • Men
    • Mental Health
    • Mindset
    • Personal Revolutions
    • Psychology
    • Relationships
    • Shadow Life
    • Spirituality
    • Trust
    • Yoga
  • Free Stuff
    • Ego | Shadow | Trust: Build Flow & Become Unstuck
    • BAM: BARE ASS MINIMUM 7-DAY CHALLENGE
    • Personality Transplant
    • Truth Bomb Brand Design Sprint
    • 90-Day Journal Prompt Challenge
    • Hamster Wheel Thought Log
    • Extremely Personal Questions
    • Random Resources and Coaching Tools
  • Videos
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