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Discussions and explorations about relationships so you can improve your quality of life.

The Unconditioned Man

The Unconditioned Man: The Real Man Waiting Inside You

Men/Life Philosophy/Mindset/Psychology/Relationships/Shadow Life

Inside many men there's an Unconditioned Man waiting to help him grow into realness.

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Emotional Garbage

Emotional Garbage: Why You Don’t Have to Take What Isn’t Yours

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How to deal with emotional garbage that's offered up as something you need to take on board as your own.

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Holding Emotional Pain

Holding Emotional Pain: Why We Hold On to Pain (and How to Let Go Without Losing Ourselves)

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How to stop holding onto emotional pain and shift into living you real life.

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CBA Mode (Can't Be Arsed)

CBA (Can’t Be Arsed) Mode: How Sometimes Not Caring Shows the Truth

Integration/Life Philosophy/Mental Health/Mindset/Nervous System/Psychology/Relationships/Shadow Life

On the virtues and benefits of learning to listen to your CBA ("Can't Be Arsed") signal so you can grow real.

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A normal reaction to a messed up situation

A Normal Reaction to a Messed Up Situation

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There's nothing 'wrong' with you - you're just a normal reaction to a messed up situation.

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Breaking the Projection Cycle

The Projection Cycle: Why Relationships Get ‘Stuck’ and How to Break Free

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If you keep hitting a brick wall with your partner then you're probably stuck in the Projection Cycle.

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The Myth of Love Hurts

The Myth of Love Hurts: Why Real Love Is a Path Back to Wholeness & Not a Punch in the Face

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"Love hurts" is a myth and this article will help you understand why.

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The Flow State

The Flow State: Sustaining Realness Beyond the Void

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An exploration of the flow state and how to stay in it as much as possible.

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Listen to Yourself

Listen to Yourself: How to Tap into The Signal Instead of the Noise

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Learning How to Listen to Yourself So You Can Take Real Action There comes a point in almost every life where we

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Isolated in Life

The Gift of Isolation: How Loneliness Becomes a Path to Wholeness

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Why you became isolated in life and how to use it to grow real.

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Oli Anderson, Transformational Coach for Realness

Oli Anderson

Hi, I'm Oli Anderson, a Transformational Coach and author currently based near Skipton in the UK but helping people internationally by working with them closely online.

I help people to rebuild trust in themselves by letting go of the patterns, fears, and inner conflicts that keep them stuck.

Ultimately, my work is about returning to what’s REAL which means integrating the mind-body system, dissolving shame, and reconnecting you to a sense of wholeness so you can move through life with clarity, confidence, and purpose.

When you stop fighting yourself and start living from truth, better decisions, stronger relationships, and meaningful progress in your life and work become natural as you start to build flow instead of constantly feeling like you're stuck in the mud.

I'm also the author of 'Personal Revolutions: A Short Course in Realness' and 'Shadow Life: Freedom from BS in an Unreal World', and 'Trust: A Manual in Becoming the Void, Building Flow, & Finding Peace' which explore how our shame, guilt, and/or trauma cause us to create identity problems that can disrupt and distort our whole lives by disconnecting us from reality.

This website will help you to start figuring out your own 'stuff' so you can start moving forward in life and stop holding yourself back with conditioned BS.

Email me at hello@olianderson.co.uk or book a call here:


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    • Shadow Life: Freedom from BS in an Unreal World
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    • Synchronesia: A Depressing Existential Novel
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