by Oli Anderson, Transformational Coach for Realness
There are many mysteries about this place (aka ‘The World’) but one thing’s for sure:
Everything that either happens to you or that you make happen is a TEST of your REALNESS.
We’re ALL real but we can spend a lot of our time forgetting it:
-Some will wake up to their REALNESS when they’re young (usually because of some trauma or some incident that causes them to DEVIATE from the unreal path society asked them to walk and get back into the REAL MODE).
-Some will wake up when they’re a bit older (either because they started asking QUESTIONS, because they went through a great LOSS of some kind, or because they had some kind of ‘spiritual’ experience that broke them out of their minds a little).
-Some NEVER wake up – even though their REALNESS calls to them from beneath the surface their whole lives long – because they don’t know how to LISTEN or because all of the NOISE in the head is so LOUD it drowns out any hint of ‘insanity’.
Regardless of if it does or doesn’t happen the immortal truth about ‘You’ is always the same:
WHAT’S REAL ABOUT YOU IS ALWAYS REAL AND ALWAYS WILL BE.
Everything you can want from life – the joy, the bliss, the creativity – it’s there waiting for you whenever you’re READY…. and the best thing is you don’t even have to DO anything except just allow yourself to be OPEN to yourself and the light you’ll find when you face your own DARKNESS.
Whoever, wherever, whatever you ARE, everything happens and can only happen when it’s READY to happen – whatever you’ve been through in life has just been a TRAINING GROUND for the moment in front of you RIGHT NOW.
All of the pain you might have endured; all of the doubts you might have had about yourself, the world, and reality; every moment of joy, every moment of release, every moment when you felt like you ‘got it’ and felt HIGH ON LIFE only for the world to creeep in again…
EVERYTHING you’ve been through has just been sent to you from the SHADOWS of yourself to CLEANSE and to TEACH you what you needed to know to be who you are RIGHT NOW.
The only CHOICE you need to make in the moment is this:
“Am I ready to be REAL or do I need to keep hiding?”
There is no ‘right’ or ‘wrong’ answer.
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