The more time you spend away from reality, the greater your FEAR of returning to it.
The TRUTH is that you know deep down when you’re being UNREAL – even if you hide behind layers of masks and BS.
The REAL you is ALWAYS calling to you beneath the surface of yourself and will show up in all kinds of CREATIVE and DESTRUCTIVE ways to get your attention and bring you back home:
-Maybe it’ll call you through the whispered sympony of your own restlessness.
-Maybe it’ll PROJECT the parts of yourself you’re trying to disown out into the world around you so you have to EMBRACE them anyway.
-Maybe it’ll DERAIL or sabotage your goals and relationships because it KNOWS that you got into them for UNREAL reasons and it wants to show you something TRUE.
One thing for sure is that you’re ALWAYS involved in the process of RETURNING BACK TO WHOLENESS whether you know it or not – the problem is that you BLOCK it by resisting life but you can only resist for so long and you can’t hide behind anything REAL (read that again).
When you’re trying to resist the return back to the TRUTH about yourself then you get involved in all kinds of CONTROL FREAKERY, HOLDING BACK, and HESITATIONS.
All of these patterns are just your EGO’s attempt to try and keep the REAL YOU at bay so it can keep tricking itself into thinking it exists.
When you get CAUGHT up in this state, then your overall state becomes a FEARFUL one.
It’s fearful because everything about it is rooted in BS:
-The BS that you carry about yourself and keep hypnotising yourself with.
-The BS that you carry about the world that stops you showing up in it.
-The BS that you carry about reality that stops you moving and pushing through.
This FEAR is about taking the first steps and returning back home because you have become DEPENDENT on all of the illusions that stop you going there.
The more you resist, the worse it gets, until eventually that REAL SELF will EXPLODE from beneath the surface.
To KILL the FEAR, you need to start RESISTING YOUR RESITANCE and taking ACTION – only then will you see that there is nothing to fear.
Once you’re home, you’re WHOLE, and everything else is just gravy.
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